Which type tends to be messiest? Most organized? Why? I am a total perfectionist, yet a total slob. The mess usually gives me anxiety, yet I have such a hard time just putting things where they belong! A messy perfectionist? Maybe I'm making excuses here but it might be that I have a hard time cleaning it unless I clean and organize it perfectly! Which can seem an overwhelming and endless task! any tips on becoming more organized? My bf is an ESTJ... yikes!!! Afraid I will become a slave to his NEED for clean!