This comment alone has healing qualities. One of the first steps to heal another is allowing the child in them to be expressed, we allow the child to speak through our capacity to describe emotion in such great that we can recreate it inside another person. This implanted emotion encourages the others inner child to speak which can come as a suprise to those who interact with us, particularly people who are foreign to that side to themselves. These type of experiences can unsettle people and they may keep their distance because of it.I was wondering also why are we caled healers?
I'm an INFP and I don't feel like a healer.
I obviously can't heal myself because I'm always suffering and want to kill myself because I just don't know how to deal with myself, other people and world.
I also don't feel like I can heal others because they are mostly anoyed by me and they just don't want to deal with me. I'm anoying, needy, too emotional, boring...
Maybe we could heal other people if they gave us a chance. And also we should a bit get ourselves together and stop the self pity and do nice things for ourselves.