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Don't know if this has already been asked. But could you please explain?
I seem to be an xNFP magnet.I've noticed that I only seem to attract EXXJ men. Seriously don't know why, since I always end up either hurting their feelings or pissing them off with my P. But every time I turn around there's another one. I've never met an ENFP guy, I wonder if they are overly sensitive. My guess is yes...
That one made me laugh out loud. :crazy:My P'ness .
I think this is why I am doomed. I have a strict "no dating" policy now. lolI think enfj is prototypical female, and istp is the essence of "maleness".
Another highly coverted ISTP woman takeing herself off the market?I think this is why I am doomed. I have a strict "no dating" policy now. lol
I doubt that.I only attract domineering J types.
Maybe this is true. The thing I don't like is that once I am forced to pay attention, there is always some sort of conflict involved. argh!I doubt that.
I would believe they are probably just aggressive enough to get our attention and be the ones to get noticed though.
My ENFJ does this. When she decides it's time for her to have my attention, she simply refuses to be ignored.
That's interesting, Fixit. I knew a guy like that too, and the relationship was exactly as you describe (even the part about driving his car-- I didn't even have a license). I wonder if he was also ESTP? I suppose he could have been. The shallowness was a problem, yes... but in retrospect, the amount of fun we had outweighed it. And the total lack of "issues" was fantastic.I did go out with an ESTP once, and I'll say that it was awesome in that there was zero conflict, only fun, no deep discussions about "communication" and "issues", and he let me drive his convertible even when I crashed it into curbs.
The bad thing is that it was a very very shallow association after a while. LOL
yes, that STP combination is loads of fun.That's interesting, Fixit. I knew a guy like that too, and the relationship was exactly as you describe (even the part about driving his car-- I didn't even have a license). I wonder if he was also ESTP? I suppose he could have been. The shallowness was a problem, yes... but in retrospect, the amount of fun we had outweighed it. And the total lack of "issues" was fantastic.
Yeah this type of guy will make you feel appreciated, but it's pretty obvious they could easily substitute another girl in your place without too much of a difference.yes, that STP combination is loads of fun.He was a pilot too. the lack of problems is what keeps it going, but that also means there is little deeper connection. sigh.
My experience is pretty much on the contrary.Yeah this type of guy will make you feel appreciated, but it's pretty obvious they could easily substitute another girl in your place without too much of a difference.![]()
That describes the ESTP friend I just kicked to the curb.Yeah this type of guy will make you feel appreciated, but it's pretty obvious they could easily substitute another girl in your place without too much of a difference.![]()