Don't know about looks or smarts. I feel like I'm often not in any position to date though.
With Fe I do have a good sense of what other people want out of dating. I know how to be a good boyfriend. That's all pretty straight-forward.
But I don't know what I really want myself romantically.
I have some idealized abstract vision of a dream partner but I know they don't likely exist. Those who come close enough seem rare and live so far away from me, or they have a boyfriend already or something else. So in reality I'm left feeling indecisive and ambivalent about dating.
If you told me to describe my ideal partner, it would be really quite difficult.
Well, I don't nor have I ever had any check list of what one must abide by to get into my good graces. I rely only on how I feel or how that person makes me feel. I guess I don't really believe in soul mates, I think you can fuse with just about anyone that you find has similar qualities that you can both share BUT there must be a physical attraction, that is just a given. Too many variables to come up with some kind of 'list'.
For most people, including me, an ideal partner has some form of logical thinking but is laid back and loves to laugh. That is a complete package! Don't you agree??