I admit, I find it kind of surprising that so many women don't care for kissing. I love kissing. I have to agree though, that I'm not one for tongue.
I am really surprised too. I was intrigued by the thread title, because kissing is
so pleasurable. I had to wait so long to kiss my sweetheart, because by the time I realized I was so sweet on him, I was many miles away. But then when I did think of kissing him, I would get weak with happiness. And when I finally saw him again, after some time, it was hard to be with him and not kiss and touch him. I wanted to kiss his hands, his face, his neck. And kissing, yes, its so pleasureable and tongues - that just comes naturally I think, a deeper part of the connection. So nice when you are unrushed. Why is it pleasureable? Because you feel connected, and you get lost in it. Must be the oxytosin. So nice! Next month - more kisses for us, and they are a treasure... The very best things in life are free...
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[..interestimg link on kissing provided above. Scrolling down, interesting how the pill helps you pick the
wrong guy! Figures! So many women take the pill which is so richly advertised since it makes so many rich to have women take it daily. It increases your risk of breast cancer
hugely! But that will keep more people in business, too. Just don't take it, ladies! Take charge of your own body. Let your body do its natural thing in its natural way. You chemically alter it, you
will have problems!]
I am editing this to add a thought on the above link here, the part that says that being on the contraceptive pill draws you to men who are less like lovers, more like relatives... researchers mentioned in that link think so MANY woman on the pill could explain the correlations between so many divorces - they pick "relative-like" men, vs. men they would like to have sex/procreate with.. Now, I have no idea how valid that research is. But if women on the pill choose men who are like relatives, think on this a minute. If you are kissing a guy who feels like a relative to you, who wouldn't want to pass on the tongue??
... Remember that scene in the car in Back to the Future, with "Calvin" and his mother?...