shrugsthis rant had absolutely nothing to with what i said....i dont know if it was intended to or what....
I'm just tired of being told to empathize with incels. And yeah--I get that you aren't necessarily saying that. They need to empathize with other people, themselves--especially with people of the gender they allegedly want love from (if I understood you right).
There are lots of people who want love. I really don't see how demanding sex makes sense--and why don't they just have sex with a prostitute then, anyway. That's apparently some kind of great privilege women have, right? That some men want sex so much they might pay them to have sex with them? I mean, if that's not love I don't know what is.