Power Confidence Money Control these are all things you need in today's society to get ahead at anything. To get the girl most woman now i'm not saying all but most are attracted to those attributes in men. INFP males do not care about being in powerful positions we don't care we wanna be the laid back ones that let everyone else do all the power trips and ego trips. Me personally could care less about money as long as i have enough to live im good money doesn't really mean anything to me Control I would say the only time i care about control is in the bedroom but day to day life im ok with letting other people take the lead. I don't care im like a hippi but i don't smoke weed. INFP males have it worse than INFP females because girls are expected to be dreamers to be into art to enjoy emotional things. Now im not saying it isn't hard for a infp female i know they probably have trouble finding a partner or finding what makes them them. I'm saying in the recent society INFP males get the short end of the stick. Some girls like infp males its usually the girl who has been dumped by men who have all the above attributes and they need someone they can use us for emotional seeking were like a emotional vacuum people think they can just let out all there emotions on to us and were just there to suck it up and take it in cause we don't want to control you we want to understand you and seek Harmony in everything we do. Sometimes i feel if i grew up in the 70's when music was about something and people were seeking harmony and it was just different back then. Oh well any other infp males feel this way or am i just alone on this?