So, as an INFJ male, if I met you in a bar and was very interested in you, but you seemed to be being coy, how would I "win you over" and make it so that we could have an enjoyable and intimate night together? Somehow, it seems so very close, but can't quite get there. And no, this is not about using. This is about a bar setting, and turning it into something meaningful with an ENTP female. Blunt advice is welcome.