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How many of you have slept with someone close to a man that you were dating, to make that man jealous or to get revenge. I've met quite a few women whom have done this, and I am just trying to figure out just how common this is.
 

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Sounds like something a man would be more likely to do, stereotypically speaking. Even so, it's wrong for anyone to do it.
 

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I've never heard of anyone doing this outside of fiction.
 

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I'm really curious to see how many girls have done this though. I've met quite a few that have done it in real life. I just want to know if that's just irony.
 

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No personal experience (somewhat similar things though), a friend of mine has had that though.

As for my personal view on the 'practice': *Censored*
 

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Have none of you heard the saying "hell hath no fury like a women scorned", its not make believe.
 

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I have slept with a guy that in the past had been my ex-fiance's best friend but he is also my close friend. It wasn't for revenge though or to make him jealous. I wanted to get rid of my virginity and he was the person I trusted most and also the most convenient. It happened several months after my relationship with my ex ended, the two hadn't talked in a year, and neither of us has any intention of telling my ex that it happened.
 

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Sounds like something a man would be more likely to do, stereotypically speaking. Even so, it's wrong for anyone to do it.
You really have lost the plot.
 
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I'm really curious to see how many girls have done this though. I've met quite a few that have done it in real life. I just want to know if that's just irony.
Most here won't admit it.
I'll be generous and say %75 of women have done it at some point in their life.
What they are more likely to do is engineer a conflict between the two men.
 
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Yeah, but if someone is trying to formulate a plot that will result in tinkering with the feelings of another with bad intentions, why would they make themselves a pawn? Again, I don't think 75% of women are that stupid.
 

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My friend's roommate did this with her ex's best friend a few months after they broke up. It would seem like she had bad intentions but in reality she had a bad sense of social awareness. She's the type of girl who gives her numbers to strange looking men she meets on the street.
 

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How many of you have slept with someone close to a man that you were dating, to make that man jealous or to get revenge. I've met quite a few women whom have done this, and I am just trying to figure out just how common this is.
No, never... I am much classier than that. :wink:
 

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Have none of you heard the saying "hell hath no fury like a women scorned", its not make believe.
I think that's a very idiotic, misogynistic saying, as if women have this over-emotional, hysterical reaction to being treated badly (whilst of course men would just calmly move on). Besides, revenge is childish and hypocritical.
 

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How many of you have slept with someone close to a man that you were dating, to make that man jealous or to get revenge. I've met quite a few women whom have done this, and I am just trying to figure out just how common this is.
Personally I think it's a pretty stupid tactic. I know people who do that, sleeeping, or going out with other men to make someone jealous. To me it's stupid and a waste of time.
And, I guess it's common. I don't know any friend that does that exactly, but I have friends that like someone and play games with others, so they can see them and get jealous. It's stupid.
 
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I think its stupid, too. It is a very immature way to go about doing things, and something I would never dream of doing.

And there is no way 75% of women would ever do this. That was a very chauvinistic thing to say, ENTrePenuer. Again I am shown a reason not to like you.... :dry:

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I've never done that before and I don't know anyone IRL who did.
 

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I think its stupid, too. It is a very immature way to go about doing things, and something I would never dream of doing.

And there is no way 75% of women would ever do this. That was a very chauvinistic thing to say, ENTrePenuer. Again I am shown a reason not to like you.... :dry:

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Would it be unnerving to know that it's that high or higher?
Would it make you sad about the state of the world?
 
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