I bolded the things I appreciate you for saying.I'd date a girl without a home if I liked her enough. But I do get your point. As someone who relies on his legs and public transport to get around, I'm more than familiar with the materialistic expectations most (not all) women (not school girls) have before they'd consider dating you. Post-feminist society has become hypocritical to say the least. Society has accepted that women can do whatever they want, which is fine and good, but society still expects men to be "men": We must still initiate everything, make the decisions, be the leaders, be the supporters, have a car, have our own place etc.
Sometimes being an INTP male ain't so easy in this world.
but its a new place to have sex at aswell!