Would you INFPs are less interested in the 'pursuer/pursued' dynamic? Like one person showing much more interest and trying to woo, seduce the other person into liking them? I always find the idea of trying to seduce someone who either showed little interest or was coy about it a bit strange. I guess I'm no 'alpha', but I think INFP males and females alike are less into that, and more into having mutual attraction developing, or relatively mutual attraction. I feel INFPs are more likely to develop feelings after a friendship, or after an emotional connection has been established. Like it's less likely to be mostly physical.