As I get older, I'm becoming painfully aware of just how common cheating is. Boyfriends and girlfriends. Husbands and wives. My Ei tells me a good 90% cheat. The evidence? I've heard the personal stories, I'm a guy and get hit on by married women often, and I've read so many blogs and forums sharing similar insight.
Two or three years ago and prior, my thoughts about infidelity were very volatile. "Cheating? WHAT!? Omfg! If my future GF/wife cheats, she's evil and I'll be SOOO devastated!! I'll immediately dump/divorce her!! How dare she betray me!!!"
But as I age... thoughts are gradually shifting towards acceptance that it will happen. Polygamous tendencies just seem natural... the brain falls in love easily if conditions are right... and meeting these conditions is much easier than one may think.
So INFP's what are your thoughts on cheating and cheaters?
Two or three years ago and prior, my thoughts about infidelity were very volatile. "Cheating? WHAT!? Omfg! If my future GF/wife cheats, she's evil and I'll be SOOO devastated!! I'll immediately dump/divorce her!! How dare she betray me!!!"
But as I age... thoughts are gradually shifting towards acceptance that it will happen. Polygamous tendencies just seem natural... the brain falls in love easily if conditions are right... and meeting these conditions is much easier than one may think.
So INFP's what are your thoughts on cheating and cheaters?