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I daydream near constantly - the only reliable escape from reality you can always fall back to - and the other few INFP/INFJ people I've met usually liked to as well and it was fun to talk about with them.

So what are your go-to fantasies?

Some examples:

* Listening to a song and imagining playing that on stage with your band and making the crowd go wild
* Being an elderly hero who saved the world and is teaching your son/daughter to succeed you (perhaps learning that they need to follow a different path)
* Becoming a god and creating your own universe
 

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I day dream that I get shrunk really small and visit the insect world and tame insects and learn that there are others who have shrunk really small and we sort of spar with our insects to see which one is better trained. I also day dream on flying on the back of dragon flies and mud-dauber wasps in a race against others. And matadoring rhino beetles. #Pokemonmuch

I also daydream about being from the jungle and what it would be like to enter modern life and see things like a whole room being lit up by a switch, or watching people inside of a box, or cars driving with the car lights at night, would I think it was some kind of roaring bright eyed demon? How confused would I be if I saw people using knives and forks while they eat? Would I just naively steal food at the store, would I understand the concept of money? How does this piece of paper translate into me getting food? Would I understand fashion at all, why do people wear these dangling bits on their ears?

Sometimes I daydream about performing on stage and how awesome I would be and how I would get the crowd involved with the performance. About how I would take a song from the shower and perform on stage, with a fake shower, and when I pull back the curtain and act like I had no idea I was on stage and they heard me singing the whole time, the crowd laughs, then I continue with the song. Would be an awesome performance.

I daydream about dancing with a girl in the dark. Bruce Spingsteen inspired lol.

Sometimes I daydream about being Tarzan and sliding along tree branches.

Carbonaro Effect is my favorite prank show, but before I watched the show I used to daydream how people would react if I used a super power in front of them, what the facial expression of "My whole reality has been shattered" looks like lol. Like if I just lifted just inches off the floor and stayed suspended in air, how shocked would people be loooool.


I daydream about a productive me lol and how awesome it would be to be that one day lol.

Sometimes I daydream about my life as a movie, scenes from movies being collected together and making up my life.

I also daydream I'm on the show MADE lol and I'm constantly talking to a camera that is following me.

I daydream about gypsie romance, with a girl that looks like the woman in the first scene of What Dreams May Came.

I watch alot of interviews of successful people, and I day dream what I would say if I was famous in an interview, and how I would look directly at the camera in the middle of the interview and tell the kids watching on youtube "THIS IS HOW YOU GET RICH!"
 

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I'll just list off a few and not go into too much detail.

-I'm running through the night with the wind combing through my hair. There's no destination and there's nothing to harm me; I'm just running under the light of the moon with nobody around. (I'd do it in reality, but I have sneaked out at night before and found out that there are creepers who loiter about, so I can't do it for my own safety, but it's nice to dream.)

-I'm rising from this earth and becoming an angel. I'm just picked up off my feet where I stand and I rise. Everything becomes slightly lighter in color as I pierce the clouds and realize that I have wings. I don't fly; I merely levitate and bask in the glory of the moment.

-I'm the skipper of my very own ship, standing at the edge of my vessel and leaning against the railing. The vast sea stretches endlessly with nothing else to be seen, but damn, is it beautiful.

-I'm a fire dancer, but I have neither a stage nor an audience. I'm just out in the middle of the night dancing on the sand of a beach that is too quiet and perfect to be real.

-I'm a solo figure skater. The song I'm performing to changes depending on what I'm listening to in reality, but each spin is so smooth and each jump is so effortless. It's all done to the rhythm of whatever I'm listening to.

-I'm standing at the top of a hill with someone I'm infatuated with. We'll look at the world beneath us, and then we'll look back at each other. We'll do this again, and then we're brought together in a magnetic sort of way and kiss for what feels like an eternity (even though it must end when I snap back into reality; this is a rarer daydream since it is conditional).

Just to name a few major ones off the top of my head...
 
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I daydream about telling others what is on my mind and having long conversations with them. I think about all the jokes I would be able to magically insert into our conversations. I daydream about teaching others educational concepts, especially science and math.

I daydream about (finally) going to a place where I can dance for hours. By the way, I meet a very excellent guy there who sees me dancing and wants to dance with me. Through dancing, we end up sharing a connection that is like the connection I feel when I get to make music with and for other people, but there is a more sexually charged mind-meld experience. He looks at me with that special look, and I just know. This certain guy appears in lots of other imaginary scenes. He's always the same, and I used to think he was a sin to think about! He's just my default guy that I think about when I don't have a current interest in anyone.

I'll daydream about my characters and book ideas, but I have to be careful when I have a lot to accomplish in real life. I can get into a frenzy where I do very bad at reality until I reach a sort of resolution. One of my characters is a robot named Danica, and she is very helpful to me whenever I have to consider the ethical implications of science and what it truly means to be a human and to be alive. Danica started out as a nameless and thoughtless robot "embryo" the size of a grain of rice. She was inserted at the base of a human infant's skull. She wired herself in and slowly began to grow as a part of the host's body. Eventually, the human died, and what remained was Danica—and the robot named herself that. She was designed to be the most powerful AI because she had learned how to quantify and improve an organic brain, specifically the human brain. She was to be the model that everyone could use for their machines. Danica also had the secret of consciousness. And she decided that she would never return to the science that created her. Aside from keeping herself away from dangerous minds, she has to make sure that there aren't any other robots like her since they are just as dangerous. Her ultimate goal is to educate the very people who think they will benefit from her why she is actually the most dangerous threat to the planet.

Along the lines of science fiction, I ponder about changing one fact and how the whole environment has to change to support it. One of my best is humans(humanoids) with blood that is based on hemocyanin to carry oxygen rather than hemoglobin. Everything changes, from the color of skin to the planetary atmospheric pressure! I'm doing my best to make these guys into bipedal creatures that still have a high activity level, but it isn't easy when your blood is so thick that you need an open circulatory system! There are respiratory organs in odd places.
 

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I do "space out" often. Many times, I do not hear someone, call my name. Sometimes I forget, I'm on earth, and I go into "a peaceful world", in my mind.

I don't fantasize much about "fantasy" type things. I just think a lot about what's going on in my reality or pleasing, green vistas.

My most comforting thought -- that I return to over and over again -- is walking up to Doyden's Castle, going inside, staying there, watching the ocean.

I often am thinking about: Gairloch, Loch Ewe, Loch Maree, Wester Ross areas (Highlands of Scotland). I think about moving there with hubby and devising an hours playlist for Two Lochs Radio.

And then there is The Alps: snowy roads, pastures, chalets, Swiss/German homes, chocolate and cheese shops.

The comfort I get, from thinking about these things, is amazing! Hm.... past lives? Possible.
 

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90% of my daydreams are pornographic xD

The 10% is divided between my ultimate ideal life & a slightly upgraded version of my current life. My daydreams tend to be realistic (things that could actually happen, but probably won't) and recurring. By "recurring" I mean that I will perfect them over time.
An example would be let's say I have X job irl. My daydreams will involve me being super successful, my boss worshipping me, and getting along with my coworkers perfectly. I'll daydream of specific scenarios where they tell me certain sentences about my greatness, or invite me to certain places where I am welcome. All of these are things that are realistic, but they won't probably happen because people usually dislike me very much, at least that's my experience with coworkers. But! nevertheless I'll keep daydreaming of success and being important and rich :) Being an authority in whatever field interests me.
And this all bleeds into my real life, because I feel so inspired and pumped by my daydreams that I do the work, I research, I bring my best attitude to the social situation, etc. So dreams and reality fuel each other.

My "ultimate dream life" daydreams are long-term goals, both material accomplishments and also the accomplishment of becoming my ideal self. I usually daydream about this in symbols, and a city and characters that don't actually exist. I'll have an alter ego (my ideal self), an alter city, alter friends, alter relationships, alter neighbors, and so on. In that realm, things happen that are my real-life goals. I use alter egos and alter events as symbology for what I am working on in the present moment to achieve materially irl.
Once I achieve these goals, my daydream shifts and expands to the next level.
So for example, today I am the ideal self of my 20-year-old self. With this I mean that at 20 y/o I was daydreaming all day long about being X, Y, Z... and now twelve years later I am precisely X, Y, Z. My ideal self came true. And when it comes true, a new ideal self is born. I am never finished with my life project.
I don't consider my daydreams to be in vain or nonsensical, they are very much symbols for what I'm working toward. Some things are easier to achieve than others. Like my ideal self is so much easier to achieve than being surrounded by specific friendships. Because I have absolute control of who I want to become, so I can work at it all day, but I don't have control of external things, like people. I can socialize all I want, but my tribe is nowhere to be found. Also, my ideal job is nowhere to be found. So... outcomes are a mix of circumstances. I can only control my own part, my actions, and just... hope that the environment responds positively :/ which doesn't usually happen. I feel like a complete alien in the world.
So I daydream about not being an alien, but about being successful and worshipped heehee ;) Also for some reason I daydream a lot about comforting others. I don't control these thoughts, they just happen. Like I'll have my ideal friends coming to me for love and comfort and I'll make them feel better and... wait, cliché coming.... heal them emotionally.
 

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I echo the comments which describe daydreaming about
- a much more ideal version of my life or an alternate life that is far more glamorous or dramatic than I'd even want to live (ie the rock band fantasy or something like that)
- conversations where I am witty and interesting and others talk about stuff that interests me too
- teaching /explaining stuff to others (often a way I work out what I think/feel in detail), and it's often conceptual things (i.e. philosophy, science, spirituality, etc)
- exploring a perspective by creating a character or story that embodies it
- objects of my infatuation, including people but also objects
- and obviously lots of sex, haha

My brain automatically can transition into these kinds of daydreams, as if they are a default mode for my brain.

As for stories and characters I create.... I will have reoccurring characters I explore different situations with, and these are not usually fantastic, but they are often melodramatic or even humorous. These characters are often inventions of my mind or conglomerations of many people I have met. The situations sometimes involve real people I know or things related to my own life, or they are totally fictional but somewhat realistic. Often a story is ongoing or reoccurring with some changes to it.

I really like to create stories which are gut wrenchingly emotional; when younger I used to make myself cry, almost on purpose. I think it was part of how I explored human emotion. It was a way of understanding what things mean emotionally - how would I react to X if it happened? Although I just experienced it as interesting, andnot as a deliberate exploration. These daydream stories are really vivid - like a movie.

I also sometimes create stories as an extension or alternate version to a story from TV/movies/books. I might insert myself or a character I've created into it. I suppose that's how fan fiction came about, although I don't participate in that.

When I have more whimsical imagery, then it's often set to music or in response to other external stimuli, like an interesting landscape. When I listen to music I often create music video-like collages in my head. A lot of it has abstract imagery. When I talk to people or look at something physical, then I get whimsical visual metaphors in my head. As a cliche example, in the Bjork "it's oh so quiet" video, where she dances with the mailbox.... I might imagine silly things like that from time to time, but it would be in response to a literal mailbox in front of me. I would not randomly imagine that with no external thing to prompt it. However, if this image was funny or in some way striking to me, then I might revisit it later. This isn't how I walk through life... it is more random and occasional. If I am in the midst of creating, such as drawing or writing, this more abstract or whimsical content can easily flow out of me without prior stimulation (or not that I can recall). I don't usually just shift into daydream about it though.

So my daydreams are generally more realistic as far as not being fantastic. I don't daydream about, say, mythical creatures or anything like that.
 
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I'm a stage performer, and I have daydreams about doing this awesome show even though everything around me is going completely wrong and the audience only sees an amazing show, not everything that's trying to interfere with it. I think part of it has to do with being perceived as fragile and weak when I was a kid and hating it, so in my daydreams I'm always a badass.
 

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- Living in the countriside, in wooden house. Several hectars (acres) in ownership, surrounded by parts of pine forest and lake nearby. Hamlet/steading type of settlement. Similar to one in this video:
 

- Meeting up and talking with various people whom i met earlier. Like two or three gather at one table with tea/coffee/chocolate and have deep conversations... Often thinking of best themes and ideas i could discuss with each concrete person. It is about 50-70% of my dreams.
 
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