I think that their are a lot of different kinds of love, and that love by its very nature is many different things to many different people. No 2 people have the same way of thinking and perceiving the world or anything in it, and that includes love. But each persons interpretation is still equally real.
Romantically, there are some things that will never be ok in a relationship, and im not saying that you should give up on looking for what you want and settle. But honestly, just accept people for the small quirks things that they do differently that irk you, and focus on the things that make you want to love them. I think that perfection can include flaws, because those flaws do not necessarily have to be made into problems.
and as far as friendships/family relationships go, i think that i am more tolerant and empathetic than most people.. I dont trust easily, and have few relationships that i take very seriously, and few people that i love very deeply. I give easily and freely to those i care for, which some see as negative, but I find that people give more easily to me because of it. I like it that way.
oh and I am extremely and abnormally loyal.