I’m a very independent 2w3, but when I am around someone that is head-centered or just not very emotional and I really like them, I find myself constantly obsessing about my faults and I have realized that I analyze my every interaction with them for pros and cons - ways I came off as “good” and ways that I sounded stupid and possibly made them like me less. I am embarrassed to admit this frankly because I am a professional. Responsible. I think I do life really well, and yet, I have this quite annoying pattern. I would love to know how other 2’s handle this if this is also an issue for you. This could also go beyond the Enneagram but I do find that I care way more about what the “hard” people think that the easy folks. If 10 people are standing in a line, telling me how wonderful I am, and there is one person in that line that I really like but is very withholding and surrounded by emotional walls, I appreciate all of my other open-hearted friends, but I will make a beeline for that one person and obsess about why they don’t like me and if they are important to me, I will analyze my every interaction with them. It’s exhausting and not how I want to be. Any thoughts?