[Enneagram Type 3] How to know if a 3w2 appreciates you and is not pretending ?

How to know if a 3w2 appreciates you and is not pretending ?

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    Type 5w6

    How to know if a 3w2 appreciates you and is not pretending ?

    Hello everyone,

    I might like a 3w2 ( I believe sexual 3) and I’m a bit confused with 3s in general. As a 5w6, I really don’t get them. I can’t figure out what this guy actually believes. When he is with other people I know he does not appreciate, I can’t see that. He is so good at pretending. I don’t know how to make the difference between the mask and the real person.

    He took the test and got 3w2. He does 3ish things : he is very sensitive to criticism about how attractive he is (he is attractive). When it comes to girls, he usually asks them if they want to go see a movie after talking to them for 5 minutes. Apparently ghosts them after he has had sex with them. He will usually go for pretty but dumb girls (or not good enough for him). Could be because he is also likely to be a 7w6. He is competitive, and likes to be appreciated by people. Very charming, puts people before him, but reserved. I don’t want to make him appear as a bad person, he is great, but I think that’s how he works (without judgment).


    How can people know a 3w2 (or a 3 in general) genuinely appreciates you and is not saying things to please you and make you like them ? How are you different with people you care about and people you don’t ?

    And for 3s, what do you like to hear ?


    I would like to tell him to be honest with me and that I am ok with what he thinks and that I won’t stop liking him because we don’t think the same. I usually ask for people to be honest because I don’t want to misinterpret things. But I feel that would be rude and maybe inaccurate with him.

    I feel a bit lost with it. Sorry that I wrote so much. Thanks for your help.
    Last edited by Shupa; 02-16-2019 at 02:59 AM.




 

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