This is a discussion on Crying within the Type 3 Forum - The Achiever forums, part of the Heart Triad - Types 2,3,4 category; Originally Posted by mpobrien I just realized I never filled out my own questionnaire thing! How often (if ever) do ...
I cry a few times a year, but it's not especially commonplace.
Task-related frustration "gets" to me easily, and I will tear up over academic, work, or project-related failures.
Philosophical quandaries/Fi whitenoise can also do it. It's difficult for others to "make" me cry--if they have, it was a deep cut, and for good reason. Coated with Teflon in that regard. XD
Okay with teary people. I try to remain calm, nonjudgemental, and humane; offering a listening ear.
How often (if ever) do you cry?
Rarely. I can't recall the last time I cried.
What compels you to cry?
When I feel powerless. Usually when I have a big problem it's completely unacceptable and I do my best to solve it as soon as possible, but when something is out of my control I just feel completely desperate and weak, so that's probably the reason. And I don't like to talk to others, even close friends, about my problems so I tend to completely repress my negative emotions to the point that it's very hard to tell, even for people who know me very well, when I'm sad or depressed. I always seem happy even when I'm totally depressed. And of course at some point I just explode.
And I don't think I ever cried tears of joy but, on very rare occasions (only happened, like, 3 or 4 times in my life), when faced with an outstandingly beautiful AND dramatic work of art that I could deeply relate to (either a novel, a song, or a movie) it brought tears to my eyes.
Do you ever cry in front of other people?
No, I usually hate to display my negative emotions in front of other people.
What would you think if someone cried in front of you?
Oh boy, that's so annoying, it depends on the context but generally I just don't know what the heck to do or say in these kinds of situations.