Fours are known for being self aware and usually are linked with being socially authentic people. Now I have a feeling this is a more common problem of the 4w3s but, do you ever wish you had certain traits which you don't feel you do. Do you feel like you're not who or what you admire in a person? And does this bother you a lot?
See because if you tried to be this kind of person you admire but you don't naturally possess, that would cause the 4 to feel phoney, right? So what do they do? Do they absolutely not think this way because of their heavy value of individuality? Or is this a contradictory aspect of the four enneagram?