Help! Ok, so, I'm very confused as to what's my wing. Before anyone comments the basic descriptions of a 4w3 and w5, I just wanna say, that yes, I've read the descriptions of both, but I'm still really confused. The thing is that according to the posts I've read, 4w3s are more extroverted and talkative and "extra/dramatic", and 4w5s are basically the quiet and introverted ones that just observe and "sulk" in a corner, and I feel like both of those descriptions are too extreme. The thing is that I seem like a 4w5, and many people would think or say that I'm a 4w5, because I am pretty reserved and shy-ish, but I perceive myself or see myself as a 4w3 because of the side of me that wants other people to perceive the unique, artistic, and deep side of me. Like, my fashion style/taste is pretty showy and "indie" (I kind of hate that word but ok). And I've heard a lot about how 4w5s are usually the type of people that know that they're unique and don't care if others see or acknowledge it, and that they don't really care to dress too "out there". I'm so confused though.
Can someone please tell me if there's another example that could help clarify the differences between these wings or can anybody tell me a different way that I can tell what my wing is? I really know and wanna be sure. Because I don't want to say I'm something I'm not. I've done the eclecticenergies test and have gotten both results so now I don't know what to do.
Oh, also, I don't know if this is relevant but I'm an ISFP.