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This is a discussion on Social 4 is searching for friends within the Type 4 Forum - The Individualist forums, part of the Heart Triad - Types 2,3,4 category; 4w5 here. I'd like to talk with you too. I have a hard time finding friends and people to talk ...

  1. #11

    4w5 here. I'd like to talk with you too. I have a hard time finding friends and people to talk too sometimes. So I can relate where you're coming from. So if you'd like to talk ever, send me a pm! :)

  2. #12
    Type 4w5

    a fellow social 4w5 with no social life haha. I'm here if you wanna talk

  3. #13

    In the same boat but I have plenty of 'online' friends. What I really want is to make some (good) friends in real life.

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  5. #14

    In the same boat but I have plenty of 'online' friends. What I really want is to make some (good) friends who bother to see me in real life.

  6. #15
    Type 4w3


    Quote Originally Posted by Candy View Post
    In the same boat but I have plenty of 'online' friends. What I really want is to make some (good) friends who bother to see me in real life.
    That costs money, though.

  7. #16
    Type 4w5

    Another 4 chiming in. I've gone through some big changes in the last year, put a lot of distance between old relationships. So also not feeling like I have as many friends. At this point I'm in an introverted rut, and need to reach out. But me being the INFJ that I am feels like I'm bothering anyone who I think might be cool. Any I'm here if you or anyone wants to chat.

  8. #17
    Type 4w3


    Quote Originally Posted by flowerstone View Post
    Another 4 chiming in. I've gone through some big changes in the last year, put a lot of distance between old relationships. So also not feeling like I have as many friends. At this point I'm in an introverted rut, and need to reach out. But me being the INFJ that I am feels like I'm bothering anyone who I think might be cool. Any I'm here if you or anyone wants to chat.
    What do you mean by that?

  9. #18
    Type 4w5

    Quote Originally Posted by Neokortex View Post
    What do you mean by that?
    Mostly I'm just kinda bored with my routine ATM and probably need to change things up. I figure making some online friends might help. I've been in my own head for far too long. I'm an introvert in my 30's it's not as easy as it once was to make friends.

  10. #19

    many four are social but importance is appearance, bees cume to honey

  11. #20
    Type 4w5

    It's been more than a decade since I've joined any online forum, but today the allure of replying to this thread won me over. I was recently reminded that compared to the rest of society I am driven by completely different things, and consequently live in an entirely different "world." The only thing that I and everyone else I know get charged about together are births, marriages, and baptisms. They aren't empowered by the sadness of funerals or comforted by the difficulty of sickness or steadied by the shock of a car accident. I strive to build consistency for the sake of everyone else, but I become debilitatingly bored by anything that is not new and meaningful and useful, all three. I actually prefer perfect consistency concerning anything humdrum like food or routine and want everything else to be exciting. Someone asked me in a serious conversation what my favorite food was recently and my body welled up with so much emotion about it that I almost cried, and I almost cried again when I realized that it was probably...butter - how ridiculous.

    As other 4w5s (or other 4s), maybe you've also heard something along these same lines: "I think you just have more emotions than most people know what to do with. You see the world a bit differently. You get kind of lost in your own head and the bigger meanings behind everyday life. I can be like that sometimes, especially getting into philosophical questions about the nature of the world, so I can understand what you mean to a certain extent, but I think you might be on a whole other level from me. ... has anyone ever called you intense?"

    I thought the person I was talking to would be able to at least handle the intensity, but after realizing I may be wrong, I think only other 4s might be able to handle it - so I'm reaching out. It's nice to know I'm writing to others who will know what I mean when I say that despite this being the truth, this is all starting to sound way too melodramatic to continue.

    If you are looking for 4 friends, count me in!


     
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