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    Which Enneagram type are you most and least attracted to?

    Which Enneagram type are you most and least attracted to?



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    Type 5

    5 for most. Least is probably 3.

    5's are just fantastic. Even when I am unhealthy I'd still date myself. And that just might be the most pretentious thing I've said all week.

    3's... it's the motivation for achievement and putting achievement on display. I sincerely believe in letting other people do your bragging. And I really hate sycophants. And just the whole that a 3 bases how they matter on outside influences.

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    Type 5w6

    Most...

    I like a person who has the dual trait of integrity and respect. I prefer that they both be themselves and integral people, self-contained, and respect me and my space and need for distance. These are the same two things I try to offer to people in my own right, so I don't think it's unfair to ask.

    I don't know what type that is, exactly - perhaps any of the Withdrawn types. I can work well with many of the types, but withdrawn seems likely to create the most comfortable dynamics.

    Least? Someone who's going to be invasive or demanding, or try to push me somehow. That describes several of the types when they are less self-aware.
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    Unknown

    5-6-4w5-9-7-8-1-3-2 in that order.
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    Type 6w5

    I'm not sure if I can relate this to certain E types, but here's my personal response:

    I'm not attracted to anyone who uses any form of manipulation in the hopes that I will bend to his/her will. I seem to meet some individuals who believe that I'm some naive child who can't see what they're doing, however expertly camouflaged their tactics are. I'm not stupid; I know what's up, and you will never be let in again once you pull this move on me.

    I'm attracted to individuals who accept and respect me as I am, honor personal boundaries and space, don't push me to do or think as they expect me to, give me time, and keep me mentally stimulated. I want to interact on an equal playing field where we are constantly exchanging ideas and remain curious, honest, and tolerant.
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    Type 5w4

    I like Fives. 'Cause then we rockin' a dope Five posse, yo.
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    Type 4w3

    I want an 8w9 who will throw me in the pool... even though I hate being thrown in the pool... and I'll kick and scream and splash and pull him in and wrestle him til he almost drowns and we will both giggle.... this is romance. :)

    Most of my best friends are 5s but they are my friends.... not dateable

    Least favorites - probably 2s and 6s... they would be frustrated by the many endeavors I engage in solitude.
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    Type 5w6

    I think I could be o.k. with each type, but not each individual.
    Anyone who intrudes, interferes, tries to control without my inviting it, refuses space or that I need time, harmful to that which I care for or about, adds nothing of interest to my life. I want to gain and refuse to spend time with those who take, rob, wreck and destroy my spirit and mind.
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    I admire eights the most (healthy ones) but which types I'm attracted to or not I don't know.
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    Type 4w3

    Quote Originally Posted by SuperDevastation View Post
    I admire eights the most (healthy ones) but which types I'm attracted to or not I don't know.
    I'm attracted to 8s even when they are unhealthy. It's problematic. Luckily I'm not attracted to people I don't know well, so as long as I continue to isolate myself 95% of the time I can continue to avoid this conundrum.
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