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This is a discussion on What Enneatypes are most compatible with 9w1? within the Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker forums, part of the Body Triad - Types 8,9,1 category; Originally Posted by KJ Always Describe what this too personal/crazy/fast interpersonal connection, so I can see in my mind and ...

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    Type 9w1

    Quote Originally Posted by KJ Always View Post
    Describe what this too personal/crazy/fast interpersonal connection, so I can see in my mind and experiences what you are speaking about. .
    One is by asking the questions regarding their personal interests, hobbies, passions, dreams, values, fun facts about themselves (something that makes them distinguished aside from their social status). This is for me what a person interesting.

    Another example is I used to ask people that I just met to show me their handwriting or take a fantasy personality card test that I designed, if they were interested in a personality analysis. It startled some and caught the interest of others. Some were skeptical, cautious, or were not comfortable with being open with their feelings so quickly, however those that were open, curious, or playful were often more likely to be SX-dom or second.
    Last edited by Quang; 03-09-2017 at 02:20 AM.
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    SimilarMinds.com > Compatibility by Enneagram Types


    The optimal enneagram matches are on opposites sides of each other. This works on same concept as socionics duality: the union and struggle of the opposites. The opposite of 9w1 is 1w9, and the opposite of 9w8 is the 1w2. These are the combination that ideally balance each other out, other relationship factors aside.






    Regarding 3s, I've seen 9s get attracted to 3s a lot and witnessed several romantic couples forming along these lines. The thing that 9 needs to remember is that while 3 is your integration point and they help you to bloom and become more motivated, YOU as a 9 are the 3's disintegration point and you will pull them in a direction that they want to leave behind. This combination is essentially asymmetric. Sometimes this asymmetry translates into the relationship between these two types, with 3 leaving the 9 behind and searching for greener pastures.
    Last edited by Sylas; 03-09-2017 at 02:46 PM.

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    Type 9w1

    Quote Originally Posted by Quang View Post
    One is by asking the questions regarding their personal interests, hobbies, passions, dreams, values, fun facts about themselves (something that makes them distinguished aside from their social status). This is for me what a person interesting.
    Those sound like interesting topics to me. I like to ask people what religion they are because I am curious to know. They usually tell me. I may ask about their creative activities if they appear to be creative types. Social status? Is that the one where people ask "Where do you work?" or "What do you do for a living?" I only want to know that if they appear unconventional and interesting. Or I am just in that curious mood, especially if I am trying to learn about various of careers that may interest me.

    Another example is I used to ask people that I just met to show me their handwriting or take a fantasy personality card test that I designed, if they were interested in a personality analysis. It startled some and caught the interest of others. Some were skeptical, cautious, or were not comfortable with being open with their feelings so quickly, however those that were open, curious, or playful were often more likely to be SX-dom or second.
    I used to do graphology too. Once in a while, I still tell people very little about their handwriting, especially if it is positive and warm. That makes them feel good about themselves. I would be curious as always with your personality card test since I love typology as a hobby for decades. I can be emotionally expressive sometimes, especially if people bring out the hidden sentimentality in me. Hahaha.
    I am primarily a Self-Preservationist. Now, that I am feeling the pain of my Self-Pres, everything else have taken a back seat for the most part. I have a friend, when his Self-Pres is a source of pain, he still goes to workshops, retreats, classes and groups. We are the direct opposite. Open, curious and playful does describe who I am, especially when I am alone or with my friends or interesting people.

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    Type 9w1

    I looked at this. I know 1w9 does not balance me out based on my personal experiences. I have enough 1 in me, so I don't need to be with a 1w9. I am a Self-Preservationist, but I think many of my friends are Social and Sexual types (interesting people). I have one friend that I know who is a Self-Preservationist. We talk about SP topics, but we both are too reclusive to bring each other out, especially without any cars! Hahaha. I think she may be a 9w8.

    This look like one of Darius pet projects. Hahaha. I am just wondering why is he still being anonymous after all of these years. He did a good job with building up his website.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sylas View Post
    SimilarMinds.com > Compatibility by Enneagram Types


    The optimal enneagram matches are on opposites sides of each other. This works on same concept as socionics duality: the union and struggle of the opposites. The opposite of 9w1 is 1w9, and the opposite of 9w8 is the 1w2. These are the combination that ideally balance each other out, other relationship factors aside.






    Regarding 3s, I've seen 9s get attracted to 3s a lot and witnessed several romantic couples forming along these lines. The thing that 9 needs to remember is that while 3 is your integration point and they help you to bloom and become more motivated, YOU as a 9 are the 3's disintegration point and you will pull them in a direction that they want to leave behind. This combination is essentially asymmetric. Sometimes this asymmetry translates into the relationship between these two types, with 3 leaving the 9 behind and searching for greener pastures.


     
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