Phrasing these things I said as being about support amd security feels weird to me tho because I don't see myself as wanting either of these things? When I want other people around it's usually more for bouncing ideas off of and getting a fresh perspective... tho I guess I could see an argument that that's also a form of support? Just a more intellectually oriented one? I can definitely relate to some of the testimonials I found about needing to run every decision past friends, especially when anxious -- I usually just end up making up my own mind when I do this tho, I hate feeling like I'm letting other people make my choices for me.
I'm not sure the descriptions of how a 6 responds to anxiety/stress describe me 100% tho. I think I have a tendency to avoid problems, sometimes to the point of seriously worrying people around me. And Im definitely not as focused or committed and find both of those things kind of scary. Like the idea of needing other people for support (not just because they're fun) is kinda terrifying. I can be spontaneous in the sense of scatterbrained, but I also overthink things too much sometimes amd end up not acting. And i can relate to the lack of confidence that 5s seem to have.
So... Yeah i can still see an argument for multiple options here. It still feels like ot could be any of these three. Or even one I haven't considered yet.