This is a discussion on All about me me me. within the What's my Enneagram type? forums, part of the Enneagram Personality Theory Forum category; Originally Posted by bethdeth My other neighbour who is awesome had polio, had something like 150 or so operations and ...
There's no conflict with her. I just cut her off so I won't lose my mind. I don't even know how unfriendly I have to be before she simply stops and we nod and walk past each other. She knows about the last neighbour and how I got her kicked out. She lives in public housing but I rent privately. She has rules, my landlord is laid back, so I kinda don't.
The neighbour before her was a bit different. She knew it was me who complained to my landlord (who then went to housing to complain) about my laptop being stolen (how dare I). She knocked on my wall from 12 am to 4 am for a couple of nights. So I recorded the knocking and got her evicted. She did rant outside my door but never came out when I was outside.
I've sorta cleaned up the neighbourhood from druggies by getting the first neighbour kicked out so my landlord is happy, my awesome neighbour is happy he doesn't have to dodge needles and the other neighbours with an infant are happy because people don't jump over their fence anymore.
I'm seeing a 9....
My landlord didn't tell me about the psycho neighbour before I moved in. He'd had a large number of people moving in and out within the month (before the last tenant who was a large built bloke with a temper apparently and his girlfriend). I found this out after I told him about my laptop. The landlord had actually been to court over that particular neighbour to get her evicted and lost the court case because nothing was provable. I found this out after I grabbed the housing commission details off him and started spamming them with every piece of shit on that neighbour. I recorded times, incidents, police calls (that were stemming from other neighbours, once myself for and argument I heard there). It was a royal pain in the arse.
It took a couple of weeks of my spamming to get the ball rolling. The housing commission were informed by me that there were grandmothers with infants on the property (they moved during that time because they'd had enough), an elderly man with polio (awesome neighbour with a dog called Dick), me with Addison's and that they should be careful with the next person they had in there. I said that the neighbours of their client were suffering a fatigue from their neighbour. So basically I finished the job the landlord couldn't.
OK so I've looked at the tritype of 8 2 5 and as much as I don't like to admit some of this crap....it fits. There have been lessons learned and fire walking to tone down the shrew but it's there.
*shrug*– ambivert: both extroverted energy (2, 8) and introverted energy (5)
– hot/cold quality
– resource for others
– straight forward
– sensitive to rejection
– cautious, hesitant to attach
– domineering, possessive
– sudden outbursts of anger
– big hearted
– generous8-2-5: Fear of weakness, humiliation and disenchantment. Tendency to seek strength, approval and intrigue.Blind spot:
– be so identified with your opinions -> too forward or too distant from others -> can appear intense, unpredictable and intimidating
Last edited by beth x; 05-13-2016 at 09:57 PM.