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    What are my stacks ye all do come.

    For those who are in the know of me and those who aren't I welcome you....

    I'm frustrated about my stacks and could use some help

    I've thought sp/so or sp/sx..all questions welcome

    Thnx.



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    so...

    sp/sx emerges from the fact that,while i care for the intimate as an extension of myself..i see my independence as shattering that proclivity with merciless dearth and wisdom..i could almost smell the stimulation (like a flower slowly in bloom with all seasons just before your eyes) and feel the pulse of its effect on my etheric body (so to speak) with things ranging from music to people

    ...but i keep a distance for the fear that it will unmask me in a violently retarding way,shifting my focus from my depth of self..toward a quality of being that simply isnt managable..desecrating the delicate balance of my state as an independent.

    it isnt that i model myself ferociously on a social bias either..though i am sensitive to the feelings of those in my immediate reach,"networking" isnt quite for me.

    the catch...i have off periods where-in the intensity simply isnt there,and i fell like an abjeted shell without any harmony of strength to lean upon...that is my thinking of Sp/So...
    @Swordsman of Mana

    i wonder what your take on this may be....in particular...as your experience is well met.

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    Quote Originally Posted by etherealuntouaswithin View Post
    so...

    sp/sx emerges from the fact that,while i care for the intimate as an extension of myself..i see my independence as shattering that proclivity with merciless dearth and wisdom..i could almost smell the stimulation (like a flower slowly in bloom with all seasons just before your eyes) and feel the pulse of its effect on my etheric body (so to speak) with things ranging from music to people

    ...but i keep a distance for the fear that it will unmask me in a violently retarding way,shifting my focus from my depth of self..toward a quality of being that simply isnt managable..desecrating the delicate balance of my state as an independent.

    it isnt that i model myself ferociously on a social bias either..though i am sensitive to the feelings of those in my immediate reach,"networking" isnt quite for me.

    the catch...i have off periods where-in the intensity simply isnt there,and i fell like an abjeted shell without any harmony of strength to lean upon...that is my thinking of Sp/So...
    @Swordsman of Mana

    i wonder what your take on this may be....in particular...as your experience is well met.
    describe your relationship with sexuality and relationships. are they typically areas of discomfort for you? are they "sensual pleasures" you feel more comfortable indulging?

    in general
    1st instinct: "I crave it!"
    2nd instinct (if strong): "I enjoy it"
    2nd instinct (if weak): "meh..."
    3rd instinct" "could we talk about something else?"




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    I'm a masturbator by instinct...

    I enjoy the company of others, but I tend to relinquish myself toward solitary stimulation. I do not care for interference from others...as my frequency of self is at a pitch that is not to be even remotely ignored.

    I've Been with others only to discover that I prefer my own company, though it pains me at times...

    I wonder.... Sp/sx ascetic perhaps?

    I can do without sex and relationships... But this is usually manifested as a bidding for sexual control...to keep her where I want her..the intensity can go flat.. But it is very much there.

    Usually though I keep even.. Never allowing anyone to "see me sweat" any intensity is thwarted and I feel as though I've died...usually wishing for suicide as a better accomplishment
    Last edited by etherealuntouaswithin; 05-15-2016 at 08:43 PM.

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    @etherealuntouaswithin I get an sp/sx vibe from you. Can you comment more on why you think you're so-second?

    Quote Originally Posted by Swordsman of Mana View Post
    in general
    1st instinct: "I crave it!"
    2nd instinct (if strong): "I enjoy it"
    2nd instinct (if weak): "meh..."
    3rd instinct" "could we talk about something else?"
    So how do sp-users "crave" or "enjoy" their instinct? What does that look/sound like? I've thought that I'm either sp-first or second for the past two years but putting it into perspective like this, sp easily goes into my third instinct (at least, my interpretation of sp). To me sp is an annoyance, but I took that as evidence that I'm more aware of that instinct and therefore it's higher in the stack.
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    Quote Originally Posted by etherealuntouaswithin View Post
    I'm a masturbator by instinct...

    I enjoy the company of others, but I tend to relinquish myself toward solitary stimulation. I do not care for interference from others...as my frequency of self is at a pitch that is not to be even remotely ignored.

    I've Been with others only to discover that I prefer my own company, though it pains me at times...

    I wonder.... Sp/sx ascetic perhaps?

    I can do without sex and relationships... But this is usually manifested as a bidding for sexual control...to keep her where I want her..the intensity can go flat.. But it is very much there.

    Usually though I keep even.. Never allowing anyone to "see me sweat" any intensity is thwarted and I feel as though I've died...usually wishing for suicide as a better accomplishment
    given this, definitely either Sp/Sx with weak Sx or Sp/So



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    Quote Originally Posted by rhythmic View Post
    @etherealuntouaswithin I get an sp/sx vibe from you. Can you comment more on why you think you're so-second?



    So how do sp-users "crave" or "enjoy" their instinct? What does that look/sound like? I've thought that I'm either sp-first or second for the past two years but putting it into perspective like this, sp easily goes into my third instinct (at least, my interpretation of sp). To me sp is an annoyance, but I took that as evidence that I'm more aware of that instinct and therefore it's higher in the stack.
    Quite simply, it has seemed like ages since I've cared for anyone, likely, it has been.

    Even in love, communication can break and become awkward. I'm all about self control and I cannot for the very breath I take, sweep myself into a typhoon of release..without time..patience..and Real burgeoning. Passion burns slowly and releases at a peak (a serpent striking...) but I must watch...and truly need.

    Without truth,as an expression (which wells up from the depths..bypassing explanation)..I don't even bother.

    The so second comes in not because i need the collective idea to breath well, but by possible default. I'm very introverted,even overwhelmed, by too much contact...though this insecurity may have other roots...

    I've said this elsewhere,I'll apply it now...Sp is all about the alter within,a compulsive dedication to what is yourself,In spite of all odds, And possible dedication elsewhere. Flexibility can waver greatly and the fortress sheds a light that kneeds you into personal salvation...a monk is an excellent example of an sp pure bred..what happens after "enlightenment", is it to be shared? Or hoarded?

    There is a proclivity to step beyond those bounds,but the desire to remain firmly rooted in oneself to attain "the value"...the substance..is all to compelling and loyalty to that path is consuming..whether you wish it to be,or not..it truly is instinctive.

    Of a feeling,there Is an ecstasy as much deprivation in remaining centrally bound to your own.

    Of a sound, one hand clapping is heard if you remain still..resolutely solitary.

    Thunder within at the roots clapping at a pace that you must manage in accord with your developing pattern of self ease

    Something like that..I hope this helps a little,and thank you for your input.
    Last edited by etherealuntouaswithin; 05-17-2016 at 11:33 AM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Swordsman of Mana View Post
    given this, definitely either Sp/Sx with weak Sx or Sp/So
    Hmm.. Thanks.

    Telling the difference is walking a tightrope I'd imagine..I wonder if you'd share your thoughts on my E-type..


     

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