Why My Se is Undeveloped if i am a ENFJ, why my Ti is better than my Se

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This is a discussion on Why My Se is Undeveloped if i am a ENFJ, why my Ti is better than my Se within the What's my personality type? forums, part of the Personality Cafe category; well that is, undoubtely i am a ENFJ because my priorities in Life are those of a ENFJ, when i ...

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    Why My Se is Undeveloped if i am a ENFJ, why my Ti is better than my Se

    well that is, undoubtely i am a ENFJ because my priorities in Life are those of a ENFJ, when i Stressed i fall into Ti grip compulsively searching for truth, self criticism, morbid thoughts againts people, Dom Fe, Aux Ni im constantly Picking every social clue, what everyones likes, dislikes, the social value of every people in the room etc, Fe-Ti Axis (why so many people even like this?, i dont know why, i want to know) so why, Why? why my Se sucks that much? im constantly missing things on real time, clumsyness, bad at sports whereas my Ti is good at analyzing things and finding flaws on systems... how is this possible if i am a ENFJ with tertiary Se and Inferior Ti? My enneagram is 4w3



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    You know I have asked this question myself! I am in a similar boat. I identify with Fe a lot but am a little bit of a mess haha. I lose my stuff all the time, have a hard time focusing on small tasks for long periods of time, etc. Though I have always been good at sports. Anyway, maybe you are not an ENFJ? You could be an ESFJ? Or one of these other types that have Fe and Ti like ISFJ, ENTP, INFJ or INTP. Though... If you are a Fe dom you would not be any T type.

    I would look into Si to see if you identify with that more! If you feel like you identify with Si more than you maybe an ESFJ that is Fe-Si-Ne-Ti. I was thinking that for a while and still have some looking into about that but those are just my thoughts :)

    Also, welcome to PerC! I hope you have a good time here :)

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    Maybe you are an infj? Well i actually have the exact same dilemma

    Andddddd

    I'm clueless

    But maybe it is possible that the ti is unusually developed

    Evry persons own development is different

    It is connected to life events in my opinion

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    Quote Originally Posted by polyjoylove View Post
    Maybe you are an infj? Well i actually have the exact same dilemma

    Andddddd

    I'm clueless

    But maybe it is possible that the ti is unusually developed

    Evry persons own development is different

    It is connected to life events in my opinion
    I know, the only thing that makes me doubt is this video
    according to that video i am a ENFJ by no doubt, that is my biggest fear, Feeling worthless for the tribe, Self Hate when im rejected
    according to Davesuperpowers INFJ are strugglin more with System, they can complain about external things for hours, i complain, yes, but finally i I end up doing it, grumbling but doing it but instead I can complain for hours when people dont give me harmony feedback when people reject me or when I see someone giving more attention to someone else instead of me, I need someone tell me than im needed, valuable to feel good with myself, I could also be an ENTJ but deffinitely im a EXXJ according to that video
    Last edited by Some dude name; 04-30-2019 at 01:10 AM.

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    Your functions aren't all that linear.

    Inf works in tandem with Dom, so it is normal to feel as though your Ti is more active than your Se.

    Plus: Tertiary is always going to be the least 'useful' one in the stack. While regularly addressed and, in absolute terms, the 'stronger' one, it pretty much just sits there and doesn't enjoy the same type of curiosity our Inferior function does.
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    Quote Originally Posted by NipNip View Post
    Your functions aren't all that linear.

    Inf works in tandem with Dom, so it is normal to feel as though your Ti is more active than your Se.

    Plus: Tertiary is always going to be the least 'useful' one in the stack. While regularly addressed and, in absolute terms, the 'stronger' one, it pretty much just sits there and doesn't enjoy the same type of curiosity our Inferior function does.
    So are you saying than i could be a ENFJ? is the tertiary function the least used function? i just use my Ti to solve math problems, analysis of fictional histories or to analyze other people in a way that allows me to talk only about what they like or just say the words they want to hear, other than that I am unable to use the logic in myself and to analyze impersonally my own problems in my daily life since I take everything very seriously, but in real life sometimes i appears very Shy However, in conversations I am very expressive and almost always take control of them being practically the most talkative in the group

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    Quote Originally Posted by Some dude name View Post
    So are you saying than i could be a ENFJ? is the tertiary function the least used function? i just use my Ti to solve math problems, analysis of fictional histories or to analyze other people in a way that allows me to talk only about what they like or just say the words they want to hear, other than that I am unable to use the logic in myself and to analyze impersonally my own problems in my daily life since I take everything very seriously, but in real life sometimes i appears very Shy However, in conversations I am very expressive and almost always take control of them being practically the most talkative in the group
    You are probably more aware of whenever your Ti manifest itself because it is your inferior function. You pat yourself on the back when utilising it because it is essentially your aspiration function- a part of you which you want to be acknowledged. Your tertiary function is not necessarily going to be your least used function. I'm curious have you ever experienced an Fe-Se loop in which you are basically feel very active in the outside world, maybe end up making some bad decisions and felt distant from your Ni reflection? As for sorting out ENTJ vs ENFJ, ENTJ are capable of using Fe tactics in a work environment if they think it is the best method to achieve success. However once they find no use for it, they go back to basically Te-ing. Fe-doms generally use Fe tactics in all aspects of their lives because it is what comes naturally to them. Read these here: https://funkymbtifiction.tumblr.com/...ell-if-a#notes and https://funkymbtifiction.tumblr.com/...-to-teni#notes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Some dude name View Post
    well that is, undoubtely i am a ENFJ because my priorities in Life are those of a ENFJ, when i Stressed i fall into Ti grip compulsively searching for truth, self criticism, morbid thoughts againts people, Dom Fe, Aux Ni im constantly Picking every social clue, what everyones likes, dislikes, the social value of every people in the room etc, Fe-Ti Axis (why so many people even like this?, i dont know why, i want to know) so why, Why? why my Se sucks that much? im constantly missing things on real time, clumsyness, bad at sports whereas my Ti is good at analyzing things and finding flaws on systems... how is this possible if i am a ENFJ with tertiary Se and Inferior Ti? My enneagram is 4w3
    Hey, the scenario you describe is exactly what I struggled with as well. Honestly, you have described every single point very well and it does sounds just like me. So I know that I am almost a 50% ENFJ and 50% ESFJ. Both types are apparently not good with thinking tasks but that's just not true for me. I love analyzing things and can think abstract but also more pragmatic and about difficult items such as science and engineering.

    I always thought this is weird but maybe it's the combination of being ENFJ/ESFJ.

    Sorry maybe that actually didn't help too much but just so you know you're not alone 😉


     

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