Sounds like Fe alright.I think it's more along the lines of harmony that I'm concerned with. I don't really consciously compare my emotions to others, since I notice a lot of people feel differently in situations than I would feel. For example, some people are easily hurt when someone makes a lighthearted joke about them, even if the joke isn't mean-spirited. I'll notice that the person is hurt, and I'll try to help them feel better as much as I can, but it's not common for me to feel hurt in similar situations. I usually think non mean-spirited jokes about me are funny, and I'll laugh and forget about it later. I actually tend to feel angry towards those who always compare their emotions to others at the expense of the other person. I know a few people who tend to not apologize for their actions unless they can see how they would feel as the victim of such, and it's frustrated me. I've broken off pretty much every friendship I've had with people like that.
I think along the same lines, when I notice (my Fe sucks).