first of all there is some test results
ENFJ,INFJ - 190(socionictest.net)
1. What is beauty? What is love?
Beauty is meaning,the defination of beauty depends on people,beauty can be a thing or a person,or a person's positive trait.Beauty evokes good feelings inside a person.
love is campanionship,being there for people,helping them to feel good,encouraging and making them trust you.Seeing someones good qualities,not caring much about their bad qualities,accepting them the way they are.Being with a person who makes you feel completed,loved and safe.
2-What are your most important values?
3. Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
I am more spiritual than religious these days,there is something bigger than us and we are more than we think,if that makes sense
4. Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?
War is totally unnecessary,unfair and dangerous.Why cant we just live in peace and accept people?We should accept them as long as they're not hurting anybody.
Power is...confidence.Trusting yourself and your ability to succeed but not seeing others as stupid people.
5. What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
I like to talk about psychology,spirituality,self development,future ideas and dreams.Why?I dont know they are interesting,I like to learn things about them and maybe even seeing others perspectives on them.
6. Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?
no for both questions,I dont focus on my body..I know I should.
7. What do you think of daily chores?
Of course,they are important but I cant keep up with them because...they are not interesting..They are necessary to keep your life together though.
8. Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
I like books and movies that changes my view on life,and I also like fantasy and sci-fi,its because they are creative I guess.
9. What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?
Cry:feeling weak,feeling ignored,failing in something I am deeply passionate about,loneliness
Smile:dreams,accomplishing something I deeply care about,music and art,and interesting people who doesnt make me feel alone,good people,cute animals,being acknowledged for being me.
10. Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?
Probably being with people I care about,who are trustworthy,fun,understanding,encouraging
11. What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
unnecessary anxiety,irresponsibility,perfectionism,sensitivity to critism
12. What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
Talents,like writing.It makes me feel I am worth something and that I am unique.And I like to way it makes me think in a creative way.
I am starting to be more positive compared to other people who is negative and makes things more depressing.
I like the way I see the word in a different way that most people,like I see things and possibilities others cant see or refuse to see.
I like that I dont want to settle myself for normal,stable,boring situations.
13. In what areas of your life would you like help?
Confidence:thanks to social anxiety(actually I've been getting better at it).I sometimes feel like people are talking behind me and judging me.They see me as a quiet girl and I hate to be called quiet because thats not who I really am or who I really wanna be.I wanna be more talkative(not in annoying way)and more energetic.So people would acknowledge me and my worth.I want to be/look more friendly.
Responsibility and persistence:I want to be more responsible and persistent in my actions.Mainly to achieve my goals.I dont wanna give up or get bored easily and just keep doing what I have to do for my own good.
Sensitivity:I'd like to be more thick-skinned.Getting easily hurt by insults does not do me any good.I want to be more carefree.
Perfectionism:I want things to be exact the same way I want them,or I will not feel accomplished enough.I should learn to accept things as they are and let go of the things I can't control.
14. Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
I felt stuck in a long rut because of my attempts to overcome anxiety..I think I didnt try hard enough and I was giving up so easily because of hardships.I felt like I'll never change,never be who I want to be and that caused me to get depressed.I withdrawned from people and that caused me to feel even more alone and powerless.I would just dwell in my negative feelings even though I know I shouldnt.
15. What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?
Like:I like people who have the personality I aspire to have.I like people who are confident but nice,carefree,optimistic and fun to be with.
Dislike:Judgemental people,mainly sexist,homophobic and racist people,people who judges others without really knowing them.
16. How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?
I dont think I ever had a real crush or fell in love.I'd like to have the feelings of it someday,the feelings that inspired people to make songs and poems and more.(It might not be exactly how its described through,maybe I am perfectionist about feeling of love too).The thought of finding the one to spend your rest of time with sounds very nice.
However,finding love is not one of my priorities in life.Some people be like ''my dream is finding the one''and I am just...are you sure?What about other things?Is this really the thing you care about the most?Thats sad..
Sex..I dont know,I am uncomfortable and okay with it at the same time.If i really trust and love someone,I can I guess,or if i am curious and cant control my impulses*nervous laugh*.
I want my partner just like how I want my friends,trustworthy,fun and such.Not so romantic and cheesy but not so unromantic either.I think many of romantic things are uncomfortable and unnecessary.
17. If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?
I would want them to be happy,open-minded and nice,kind.Because thats how a person should be.To make them like that,I would try to have those qualities,because children learn lots of things from their parents and their parents behaviours may shape their personality.
18. A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?
Inward:I would probably look normal or calm or I would just roll my eyes.
Outward:It depends,most of the time i wouldnt wanna cause any fight or conflict.Because it would probably cause me anxiety..even when I know I'm right,especially if I am not that comfortable and close with that person.If I am close with that person I wouldn't be relaxed until I tell them what I think,I don't think I would act angry about it though,I would just explain things.
19. Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.
I mainly see people in society as individuals but they are also part of a greater whole because society is all of us,we are society.We,each one of us as individuals,should and must make society better.I think the biggest social problem is judgement,mainly judging without knowing anything.
20. How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?
I am repeating myself but I wanna be friends with fun,trustworthy,encouraging people and things like that.I wouldnt say the people I am not comfortable with are really my friends.With friends I am comfortable with,I like to make jokes,considering fun things to do and having a converstation about deep topics.
21. How do you behave around strangers?
They probably see me as quiet and introverted girl that only talks once in a while.