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I've been training swimming since i was 5 years old. For 15 years I've been compulsive trying and didn't wanna give up. Then i got injury and went college. At first it was hard to renounce your dreams but i realized there is more about life and i have other talents i can use and make some good contribution.

After a while i changed activities. I started dancing. And this is when the line "INFJs, like all 8 dominant left-hemisphere Brain Types, will tend to get more mechanical in their motor movements under pressure." comes in.
This is is very true for me. No matter what i can do, i can't relax and i get very mechanical when is a crucial time to preform. My head always goes "waaaitttt...this is too fast...im not ready...slow down...i need to prepare...can i go in another room and practice for 100 times and then come back?"
 
I was never all that good at sports. I enjoyed playing them, but I really, really sucked. I didn't get any decent coordination until I was 13 or 14.

I find it interesting that this article says INFJ's are left-brain dominant. I think I am balanced, leaning toward right brain.
 
Interesting, but like it says you can be good at anything with a lot of practice. Like someone has already mentioned here it helps to watch a top athlete. I was very good at football (soccer). I played centre back and became captain within my second season (not that I enjoyed it too much). Playing centre back you have to be very aware of the people around you, but importantly good at predicting the play, which I seemed to be able to do. What I did though was analyse Rio Ferdinand on live TV and highlights. Somehow it made my mind click to how he was always taking action 2 seconds before the opposition, you start to connect patterns on how the midfielders are playing and see the body language on where they will place the ball for the strikers. My biggest problem was lack of aggression, which is vital for a centre back... I was just very tall and strong for that age so I made that position. I disliked the position a lot, a good example of a centre back was my mate who played alongside me (probably estj or something), very aggressive person always in your face, enjoyed getting rough with players. But I noticed how none of the others could play my position well so I played there for the team. Wish I had played more forward though. When it comes to sports in general my hand coordination is awful haha, so clumsy. Although I have a good physique I am not naturally athletic when it comes to skill etc. For example smaller weaker people can throw a ball a lot further than me. Rugby was like being thrown in a hellhound pit. Sorry for the lack of paragraphs... For some reason it does not let me press enter to create a new line on this website.
 
We, INFJ's, aren't certainly the most athletic type (from this article). However, we are a very poetic type. Of course, the pen is mightier than the sword!

As for me, clumsiness is a common athletic trait of mine. It may have destroyed many parts of my body but it was also an advantage as it made me an underdog! I think underdogs are the perfect advantage to every team! If you have no clue who to pass the ball to, pass it to the underdog! Most likely to be free and has the most likely chance to shoot/score a point :)
 
I'm a cyclist, but I have terrible coordination. I was in gymnastics as a kid, but I had to quit because I kept injuring myself. That, and I started getting interested in music.
 
I'm good with net sports, like tennis and volleyball and badminton. I started casually table tennis and badminton with my father occasionally when I was young. And when I got older, I was able to play all the net sports pretty well, though I never got enough motivation to do those professionally. I'm also glad I started swimming early.

But I've been finding slow success with skateboarding and basketball despite starting late in life, even though it takes me a long time to watch people play, practice mechanics, being in pickup games, and enduring the frequent criticism and "guidance" of strong players. It'll be a long process for me, with other less athletic interests getting in the way, but definitely worth the effort, no matter how little progress.
 
I was an A/B Honor Roll student in high school, but to get a B in PE was quite an achievement. All my bullies seemed to make me a target in PE. To this day, I still can't throw or catch. For me, the best sport is martial arts because it's an individual sport.
 
I'm still traumatized from being forced to play dodge ball in grammar school. So no. No Sports. Plus I'm fairly clumsy to make matters worse. Unless it's horse back riding. Which IS a sport. That I can do and love <3.
 
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I took up boxing at age 15, and I did have some coordination issues. Here's the thing though, I required a completely different approach than most people. My boxing coach tried to make us learn how to do it by letting us throw the punches and correcting our mistakes when he noticed them, but that didn't work for me. I had to watch videos of boxers throwing the punches, analyze their movements and understand the physics behind the blows. As soon as I understand exactly how something works, my body follows my understanding. I basically need to study the theory behind the movements. Learning how to drive was a similar experience for me.

Maybe I'm just an oddball though. :tongue:
Yeah that sounds like me. Everyone else seems to be able to learn super quickly on their toes simply by trying it, being told their doing it wrong and just adapting. It's not like I can't do that but I just notice it's much slower than everyone else, so inorder to catch up to everyone (and get ahead of everyone) I feel the need to do behind the scenes working - studying, learning and anaylzing as you described and I also try to do alot of extra practice but its only because it feels like I am handicapped to some extent lol. The advantage is that, when I get to the point that I am skillfully even with everyone, I have that extra edge over them because I am still in that mode of obsessive learning.
 
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Yeah that sounds like me. Everyone else seems to be able to learn super quickly on their toes simply by trying it, being told their doing it wrong and just adapting. It's not like I can't do that but I just notice it's much slower than everyone else, so inorder to catch up to everyone (and get ahead of everyone) I feel the need to do behind the scenes working - studying, learning and anaylzing as you described and I also try to do alot of extra practice but its only because it feels like I am handicapped to some extent lol. The advantage is that, when I get to the point that I am skillfully even with everyone, I have that extra edge over them because I am still in that mode of obsessive learning.
But the important thing, I think, is your answer to the (most likely rhetorical) question posed by Mr. Graham Taylor one night in Poland in 1993.
 
But the important thing, I think, is your answer to the (most likely rhetorical) question posed by Mr. Graham Taylor one night in Poland in 1993.
Lol "CAN WE NOT KNOCK IT?!"
ingenious, but judging from the video and the preformance - I don't think we can, lol
 
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I play roller derby. Modern, flat track, real roller derby. Not the kind that showed on TV after Saturday morning cartoons.

Anyway...

It's a challenge, because I feel like the weak link sometimes, and that gets to me. I wonder if others see me as a weak link as well.

But the thing is... I'm not. I don't backwards block (yet), but if I'm standing besides somebody who can, they can use me to get in the jammer's way. I don't hit a lot, but I can slow down somebody who is behind me. I'm not fast, but I can take a hit and not fall.

It's helped me realize my strengths and know what I need to work on. That means a lot.
 
I thought the post will specify what kinds of sport are preferable or enjoyable for INFJs, because currently all I can do is jogging (only thing I wasn't against to in childhood) since with age my body started to imitate wood more and more :laughing: I thought I must do smth with this. Envy people who can enjoy sports or at least post-excercise relief state, without music I couldn't be able even jog (I can dive into my thoughts) cause my body rejects to understand why I'm torturing it.
 
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