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The Best Jobs for ENFPs Thread (only from experience)

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#1 ·
Lots of us wonder what the perfect job for ENFPs. The truth is probably that there is no one such job. But maybe we can put together a list of things we've done in our past that we genuinely enjoyed doing and want to recommend to others.

Myself, I would highly recommend trying out as an international aid worker. I know that they still need tons of help down in Haiti and anybody with the necessary skills are being sought out. I've worked in Africa before (even if it was only for 2 months) and it was just really interesting. A lot of the other interns I went with couldn't hack it, but I found myself oddly enraptured by the new surroundings.

I would NOT recommend military.
 
#2 ·
I would love to read about the experience of other ENFPs with their jobs. Right now, I have no idea what I want to do, only that I want to do something that I'll enjoy. I'm pretty sure that's typical around here. :laughing:

I can't be of much help in this thread, though. Haven't really enjoyed any of the things I've done, except the social aspects of them. I recommend volunteering to my fellow ENFPs, though.

Also, I totally agree about the military. I haven't been in it, but I can already tell it would be a horrible fit. :crazy:
 
#3 ·
well that's what this thread is here for. too often ENFPs go into things imaging everything to be perfectly amazing, only to have reality slap us really hard in the face. this thread is where you post jobs where even AFTER you get slapped in the face by reality, you STILL liked the job and would recommend it to other ENFPs.

but make sure you don't write about anything you have no idea about. Only post those jobs you've done and experienced yourself. Let's try to keep our opinions of what certain jobs "sound like" to a minimum.
 
#4 ·
I suppose I can't say this about all retail jobs, but the one I currently have (while going to school) is amazing.

First- you need to find one with managers that get ENFPs. I've worked in four retail stores, and this one is the only one that I've liked.

Second- The bigger the environment, the better.

I work at Macy's department store, and it's just lots of fun. You get to work with people more than focusing on silly little odd jobs, and ENFPs are fairly good sales people. If you know how to get the lingo right, pushing charity donations, credit applications, or anything else can be absolute cake. You also get amazing things for doing this, Macy's money (money you can use around the store, can contribute to half your purchase), real money, and prizes (handbags, makeup kits, tickets to fashion shows).

So if you can find a real PEOPLE focused retail job, it's great.

I've also had a lot of success at cashiering, though it does get really boring after a while.

Keep in mind these jobs are more student-driven, in my opinion. ENFPs can accomplish far greater!

I'll let you know about the psychology thing once I land a job there ;).
 
#5 ·
I've worked at a library in the kids department and it was so much fun! Sorting the books in the back wasn't really my thing, but since I worked alone, I could read some of the kids books and the covers of the more teen age books! YAY! and then putting the books on the shelves; so calming! helping little kids find books about dinos or horses or princesses or whatever they liked; best thing ever! and helping parents finding good books was also awesome!
Maybe I liked it so much because I used to read so much and now so many books, just thinking back to what I liked and recommending it! weee !

The library was very very big too, so just walking and getting lost with all the interesting books! best thing ever!

I can only recommend it, but I don't think that working at the library as the one who puts the books on the shelves is a job you can have forever. It's definitely a student job! :) but a great student job!:proud:
 
#6 ·
I have worked a number of jobs, but can honestly say that working in the ""book"" field fills many of my needs.
I have worked in bookstores and in libaries... I love reading and keeping up with current fiction (shhh don't tell anyone, but I have fallen behind lol)...
Being able to talk to customers is a bonus... and now I am working in a Job discovery centre where i help clients to compose and polish resumes and cover letters. It is gratifying to help someone get started on this journey with the right tools. xoxo
 
#7 ·
I hate the food restaurant industry.

I would agree that keeping about people is a key. I have had jobs where I was the only person in my peer group. I managed an art collection for a collector/ hotel, the job was awesome and I got along well with my boss, but it was kind of lonely. I was the only person who was employed by the collection, every one else was in other dept. so i was often left on my own.

Ideally I would like to be a in a community of people.

I like film and tv production a lot but it is hard to find gigs in it.
 
#8 ·
I hate the food restaurant industry.
Worked at a food place for a few months temporarily this summer. The manager was nice, easy to get along with, and funny.

Probably also the only manager who could tell me, without hurting my feelings, that food service was not my thing.

I totally agree :crazy:
 
#9 ·
I believe that ENFPs are a step ahead in realizing that it's important to live by our hearts. I think ENFPs must die less of heart disease.

I think it's not about what you do. Rather, do what you love and find a way to make money off of it. It is in this way that you'll never feel like you work a day in your life! Do what you love, and the money will follow is my experience.

I earn money as a performer and I teach everything I love and I don't limit myself to one thing. I teach voice, piano, and aerobic kickboxing (I'm a fitness junkie too). My music studio is my own business so I can play with my hours and make sure I still get enough sleep even when I perform.
 
#19 ·
TRUE for this enfp as well...i've got 7th graders 2.5 hours a day...love it!! they can also relate to us too. Being an ENFP might lend itself well to sloppy desks and "so called disorganization" but we sure bring other gifts into our classroom...understanding, kindness, patience, flexibility with kids who are maybe "organizationally challenged", etc...

Teachers: Can we maybe try teach organization as a tool to help students navigate instead of an "optimum setting" that everyone NEEDS to aspire to? I still remember how inept I felt about school and even my own self when back in elementary school I had to repeatedly hear about "would you get organized?" It seemed well meaning teachers who were perfect organizers would strive to make us all that way. I am a "fail" in that dept. Sorry. I can try really hard and I can navigate my day, but it's one hell of a pile of work and it wears on me. Maybe we need to recognize that and think about it! I knew kids in school whose locker or desk looked perfect. No matter how much they worked, it was all put together, all the time. Mine looked like crap.
There are teachers in my school whose desks are so wonderfully organized, not a thing out of place. Mine looks like crap. However, I still can find every single kids work and manage to get through the day just fine--thank you very much!:tongue:
 
#11 ·
LIFEGUARD! Plenty of people watching and flesh on display.

Research assistant was a good one too. INTJ scientists can't even converse with each other very well let alone anyone else. ENFP makes a fine translator.
 
#12 ·
I hatehatehated working as a phone monkey for a non-profit. This seemed strange to me because, well, we're supposed to like all the interaction, but then I realized that if you answer phones for a non-profit that runs programs for which people need to enroll, you become the N-P's pointperson and therefore the first target of abuse.

I hated every minute of it, and I was taken advantage of by the management. Asstastic.

What I did enjoy, though, was teaching college-level classes. Discussions were always good, and I felt great feeling like I was doing something positive for people. The only thing I hated was the commensurate paperwork. And the 4 hour round-trip commute.
 
#13 ·
Well I've been volunteering with San Francisco fire as a emergency medical personel and I love it. Even thought it's hard for me to see them in pain I do my best to make the best of the situation. The firefighter I work with say im a sense of hope an inspiration to those in time of crysis and that I would make a wonderful public safety personel someday
 
#15 ·
Sometimes I think being a voulunteer medic is such a ENFJ thing but I love doing it I'm finishing my EMT-B school this winter so when I turn 18 right after Christmas I'm going to finish my National Registery test and work as a EMT:proud:
 
#16 ·
I work as a software product manager, which is kind of like the middle man or catalyst between the engineers that build the software and customers, sales, and marketing people. I think its the perfect job for an ENFP as you really get to relate to a whole range of personalities. At times you get to wear many hats which satisfies our passionate whims and I think the job requires a lot of empathy. The best part working in technology is that there is always a fire to put out, and I often find myself scanning the environment for something to fix.
 
#17 ·
The most mind-blowingly awesome for ENFP job I've ever had was on a commercial as a production assistant. I'm currently doing everything I can to get into the film industry partly as a result. It was just awesome! For a week, you get to go to some new place, work really really long hours really hard, meet and work with new people, doing something new every time! And the hard work only lasts for a week! LOVE IT! Oh, and the pay is like amazing too! I made as much money on one chevy commercial as a PA for a week as I did working half a summer two years ago as a lifeguard!
 
#18 ·
For someone who's only 25 years old, I've had a heck of a lot of jobs!

Jobs I loved:
- Working in a record store stocking DVD's and helping customers
- Developing and delivering healthy living workshops to high schools all over the state
- Volunteering in the USA visiting different schools/churches/universities and raising awareness/funds around child soldiers in Africa

Jobs I hated:
- Door-to-Door Salesman
- Working in a Cell Phone store where I was expected to meet set targets each week
- Customer Service in a Steel Shop (I know nothing about steel at all!)

I think ultimately as an ENFP, if you have a good manager who doesn't push you to hard, is a great listener and provides encouragement you could do any job. When I think back on all of my favourite jobs that's what made it for me, an awesome manager.

I'm currently in my final year of my social sciences (youthwork) degree at the moment, but pretty over the occupation so would love you guys to continue sharing what jobs you loved! :happy:
 
#20 ·
From my own experience:

Jobs i didn't like:

-Deck cadet
-Deck officer
-Security guard
-Reapier of the house


From everyone of them there were things i DID like: when i was sailling i loved to see new countries,i've been in lot's of countries like Pakistan,India,Norvey,Netherland,Australia,Indonesia,China..etc...meeting new people..
When i was working as security guard i've loved chit-chat with lot's of people ( something like "The Garden Festival" in Petrcane,Zadar).
When i was repairing the house i've loved social way of working.

But,when u put it all together that r all bad jobs for us.


Jobs i did like:

-Waiter
-Boxing



But,that job had bad things too,when u r waiter u must work a lot,u sleep less and can be stresfull.Not healthy jobs and only good when u r 20 years old but still,i really liked it!

Boxing - the bad thing is that it's no good to get punch in head and body and that there r lot's of bad guys around the Gym but boxing keeps u on edge and that's real and we ENFP's like real emotions.
 
#21 ·
Jobs I've had that I've liked as an ENFP:

nanny-teach kids stuff
youth counselor-more teaching/helping guide
flight attendant-probably the best job for me thus far-new places, new people, awesome experience.
soccer coach/poetry teacher-again teaching kids...

now onto something new...again! seems like my trend is when i get bored/a job doesn't work out, i'm not phased and find something new and exciting.

on my current list of jobs i'd like to try:
event coordinator
dj
photographer
dance/yoga instructor

:)
 
#22 ·
I really, really love my job as a reporter for my college's newspaper. My coworkers are hilarious and easy-going, and you get a lot of freedom to write from different angles, so long as it's professional and suitable for the public. It's also really flexible work. I only have to sign up for one editing hour a week (though usually I go in for much more than that) and you can take as many assignments as you like, as long as you take at least one.

The only thing that I didn't really like is that the deadlines can get a bit overwhelming, especially since I always procrastinate.

You get to talk to so many people, asking them about their feelings and whatnot. One time I wrote an article about a "Toys from the Heart" charity that one of the fraternities does to give toys to low-income children for Christmas. One of the guys went on and on about how much he loved dressing up as an elf, giving toys to the kids. He was like "There's so many toys, they don't even know what to do with themselves!" I thought it was such a sweet, lovely interview.

Another cool thing-- if you write an article on art, like a play, or a symphony, you actually get to talk to the artist/director about it. I love watching the plays at my school, and I LOVE talking to the directors about their feelings, why they chose to do things a certain way, etc.

However, I don't know how I would feel about professional journalism. I mean, don't get me wrong, at my college, we have to conduct ourselves professionally, and we've won a lot of rewards because of hard work. At the same time, everyone kind of expects you to make little mistakes every now and then, because they know that you're young and still learning.

Some factors to consider when reading about my great experience in student journalism:
-We have a very small staff, so we're all kind of pals as well as coworkers. This definitely makes the job more enjoyable, but not all papers/magazines will have such a close-knit staff.
-It is my understanding that professional journalism is rather cutthroat. This could definitely interfere with ENFP values.
-I go to a smaller college, so everyone kind of knows everyone. I don't think that I would expect such friendliness in "the real world" of journalism.

It is for the reasons above that I would not pursue journalism as a life-long career.

As for a job I didn't like-- McDonald's employee.
Ohgawd. People are so patronising to McDonald's employees. They think "Oh, she's in fast food; she must be an idiot!" Customers make such a huge deal out of small things, and it's hard not to take it personally. Sometimes I legitimately lose my faith in humanity after someone just cussed me out because their milkshake wasn't thick enough.
Also, the coworkers make me feel out of place, because most of them are ghetto. I have had my life threatened multiple times by coworkers.
I had one manager who was barely literate, but would constantly call me stupid and incompetent because I wasn't meeting her standards (One time I had JUST clocked in, and they put me on fries... no one was on fries before me, so of course we were behind. "I need three medium fries," she'd say to me, and when they weren't already up there waiting for her, she'd turn around and make a comment like "I hate waiting on fries when we have a fry person."

Fast food is a really fast-pace job. There is very little moment for rest, because people are constantly coming in, and they all expect their food in a timely manner. It really sucks when you're stressing out because someone just ordered 10 mcdoubles and you have 7 orders to make after that, then you have someone constantly criticizing you while you're trying to keep up.

The only thing I liked was some of the coworkers who actually appreciated/liked me. My other manager has actually bought food for me before when he saw that I was having a bad day. Also, you occasionally get the appreciative customer. My favorite was when an old lady came in, was very happy about my attitude, and told my manager that he needed to hire six more people like me. :3
 
#23 ·
I love my work; research psychologist.

New projects, all about people,lots and lots of ideas :)

and I just noticed; why not aim for "researcher"? Not just 'research assistant'! Lol after a while, it's much better to set the agenda. We've got worthwhile and useful ideas; believe it and run with those ideas! :)

and weirdly enough I hated basic retail/sales jobs; I was cr@p at them!
 
#24 ·
^^; I'm a system admin which you can translate into Jack of all IT trades. I love it because I'm given the freedom to do my work how I want it be done within a limited budget, so I get creative with what I have. Creative problemsolving is probably the bigger part of the fun stuff I do day in day out around and with other ppl.

When something unexpected happens and I need to resolve solve it *_* its like christmas. Also its fun thinking ahead in realistic terms and anticipating things. New challange arrives and ppl turn to me to supply the solution, then implement it.

Its true thou...I fucking ahte dealing with the detailed bits.
 
#27 ·
I work in IT too, but mostly in support. I would love to be a System Admin, but it takes me time to solve problems which unfortunately isn't a good thing when mission critical stuff goes down.

Support is fun, I like change and lots of activity which this job somewhat has. My ultimate job would be one that allows me to fly all over the world.

One job I ended up hating was working as a sound editor and mixer. Long hours, stuck lonely in a mixing room, douchbag producers, ick. Those editing jobs are meant for people who are extreme introverts.

Still suck at details though, so it makes perfect sense that I can go int management :laughing:
 
#25 ·
I think it's time for a change for me. I'm in marketing but it's not creative marketing and pretty much I'm sitting at a desk all day.

I do notice that I can get lost in writing though. I write copy sometimes and it's the thrill of having the project, writing, and then finishing it and on to the next one. I'm pretty sure my next job is going to be doing some writing - I freelance write now but my full-time job is sucking away all my joy.

And to the person who said something about research. I LOVE research. I could do secondary research all day and be perfectly happy - finding out info etc.
 
#26 ·
I had a lot of art production jobs early on (teens, early twenties). I worked at a stained glass studio, a pottery shop, and did clothing sewing for a shop. I liked these jobs, but it was all just about creating the pieces as much like one another as possible, which got boring. But the creative aspect was great. Also I worked alone sometimes which sucked.

I also worked for a year at a jewelry studio doing production, I liked that a lot. But it was really hard on me physically, I got to where my hands were always stressed out from squeezing pliers and shaking and stuff. So, I quit. Then I did my own jewelry making for my own business, which did not pay well and was still difficult. But I got a lot of creative autonomy and it was rewarding and I met a lot of cool people.

I have been career conflicted for the last 7 years because I get jobs in the energy industry through friends - my ex was a digital cartographer and I picked it up, it can be very technologically boring although I am capable and the money is WAY better than any creative pursuit I've undertaken so far. But there are often personality conflicts with the types I get to work with in the industry. I'm currently at my wit's end on how to connect with my ISTP boss. I won over the ESTJ supervisor (except now I know not to trust her with personal stories because she will turn around and tell others).

I do enjoy being a tech "liason" between the INTP/J tech types and the SJs. I'm really good at it. I even managed to help the office like an ENTP coworker that had no clue how strong he came on. I totally got him, but everyone else was up in arms, and he either did not care/did not realize that everyone had such a problem with his personality. He and the ESTJ project manager were always at each others throats and I got pulled in the middle more often than I would've liked.

I would like to start a floral studio and do wedding and party flowers someday. Either that or be the unofficial office psychologist/project brainstormer/creative consult :)
 
#28 ·
Oh, I forgot to say my least fave, I did cold calls and it was terribad! I was always cringing from obviously bothering people who didn't want to talk to me, it was the worst! I quickly worked my way out of that position and into something more technical and tolerable.

Also waitressing was hard, it is very stressful to always have people mad at you (or worrying that they are). I preferred hostessing even though the money wasn't as great. I had nightmares for years after I stopped waitressing where I was the only one and the whole restaurant was waiting on me.

And retail jobs were SO boring and made me cynical. A lot of people suck.