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I have been told by various people throughout my life that I set too many high standards for myself when it comes to my goals and relationships.
I set the bar too high, they say.

Do I need to lower the bar for myself?

How do I lower the bar?

If you set your standards high it will probably be less likely that you’ll fall for multiple people at once. It also means that you’re less likely to end up with someone abusive. I can speak for myself when I say that having low standards isn’t really that good. However, whether your standards are high or low depends on your standards for what is a high or low standard

 

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That's your problem for thinking I'm normal mate.

But yes I loved KPOP. Started off with loving anime and manga in my teens, then Japanese dramas/movies, then I found KPOP through that, way before Gangnam style came out. No different to teens liking One Direction I guess. But fuck, KPOP fans are fucking crazy. Like... poisoning idols, pushing them to suicide, quitting school to stalk their idols daily, sending their idols period blood letters with a sprinkle of pubes. Lol. Plus the whole industry is toxic and evil and I became disillusioned and stopped enjoying it.

But seriously, the amount of times my friend would just grab the first Asian she saw in a bar and tried to introduce me to them 🤦‍♀️ I once met a KPOP fan IRL - met her on Tumblr (lol) and we went to the same college - and she just wanted to go to the Asian supermarket and oggle random (probably married) Asian men, it was incredibly fucking weird.

Did you wear a yukata and a cloak in 6th grade?

 

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Love K Pop really into 2Ne1 back in the day and I love Black Pink. I also like Anime. And then there's Korean Dramas but Taiwan Dramas are more spicy 😉 Have any favorites?

I saw this on yt but I have no other known of kdramas

the steins;gate anime is really good but it’s hard to get people to watch it because no one I’ve recommended it to is smart enough to understand it

 

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Did you see the mbti reality TV show?

I’ve never heard of it