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The most attractive ennegram?

66K views 202 replies 88 participants last post by  Antiparticle  
#1 ·
which ennea you find the most attractive, and why?

for me, perhaps 4w5. i love emotionality.
as second, perhaps 3w4 because of their masculinity without pussiness.

although i havent got enough data on each to really decide which i like more, but i speculate on my current knowledge that itd be 4w5. which is a subject to change as i gain more data.
 
#2 ·
Me. I'm fucking gorgeous.
 
#7 ·
You stole my answer.

Really though, I tend to be attracted to 8s and 1s. I don't know why.
 
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#4 ·
which ennea you find the most attractive, and why?
for me, perhaps 4w5. i love emotionality.
as second, perhaps 3w4 because of their masculinity without pussiness.
although i havent got enough data on each to really decide which i like more, but i speculate on my current knowledge that itd be 4w5. which is a subject to change as i gain more data.
I tend to be attracted to 3w2s, 2w3s, 6w7s and 7w6s.

if you asking from a strictly aesthetic standpoint, 3s and 7s
 
#10 ·
Anyone who can match me in a game of wits and doesn't offend easily. 7s, 1s, other 6s, sometimes 3s. I don't know many 8s, but I feel like we would get along well.

I do envy 9s though. So much. Before I knew about enneagram even, I used to seek out 9s and sit by them. They have the missing pieces I'm searching for.

Sincerely,
A desperate to grow 6.
 
#14 ·
you should have done it with multiple choice option with the wings specified and all.


i voted for 9w8. there's one 9w8 who is most attractive.
I agree...a type 9w8 first ;-)

a type 6w5 second ;-P

a type 3w4 third :)

By 4w3 SX/SP
 
#19 ·
How about this, you tell me which one of those looks like Jessica Alba, dances/sings/acts like Hyun-a Kim, smart like a biochemist with a PhD in Philosophy, considerate and compassionate like the Angelina Jolie with a medical degree working for Doctors without Borders, and i'll pick that one ;-)
 
#22 ·
An intelligent and good looking 2w1 is always a good treat. Being the narcissistic prick that I am, this is the type that appeals to me the most now. Maybe I'll change my preferences in time(like I usually do) when I manage(hopefully) to raise my self-esteem. Not happening soon though.
 
#24 ·
I think the most attractive tritype to me, ultimately, would be 852. Or... 582.

But for just one type specifically, I chose 5w4. I loves it.



I'm pretty attracted to Sevenness right now, but I don't think it's for healthy reasons, haha. So I didn't choose that.
 
#29 ·
An INTJ said to me the other day, "I see why you like 4s so much: their integration point seems holy to you."
Then I started doing some "enneagram relationship math." Tertiary Te FTW. :tongue:

An 8 would integrate to 2, and a 4 would disintegrate to 2. Therefore, a 4's disintegration point looks holy to an 8. This may account for some aspect of why 8s are said to go crazy for 4s. *fans myself*

A 2 would disintegrate to 8, and a 5 would integrate to 8. According to statistics, 5s most often marry 2s. Again, a 2's disintegration would look holy to a 5.

A 1 would integrate to 7, and a 5 would disintegrate to 7. So a 5's disintegration would look holy to a 1. I know that a lot of 1s crush on 5s... and this is also a common relationship, statistically.

An 8's disintegration point, 5, would look holy to a 7. Correct me if I'm wrong, @cata.lyst.rawr, but it seems to me that many 7s find 8s attractive as a rule. :kitteh:



I am not aware of other trends of attraction as they relate to the types whose disintegration looks holy to another type (especially the 3, 6, 9 triangle - if I write that out I'd just be going in circles...) ... but anyhow, there's some food for thought.
 
#51 ·
An 8's disintegration point, 5, would look holy to a 7. Correct me if I'm wrong, @cata.lyst.rawr, but it seems to me that many 7s find 8s attractive as a rule. :kitteh:
Oh yes pleeeaaaazzeeeee. ;3 Gimme a powerful, charming, dominant, intense, quick-thinking 8w7 any day!!! ;D I'll even take the sociopaths.


What? I like danger. :cool:





rawr you're back!!! :kitteh:
 
#33 ·
That's my whole tritype you just listed. Would that make me completely unmanageable, being SX dominant as well? :unsure:

A long time ago in a galaxy far away, I was very taken with a 9w1. He was talking about another woman and said, "She's too intense for me." My heart broke into a million pieces. I wrote angsty poetry about it in my diary. "Too intense" ... it was a knife in my heart!
 
#42 ·
The id types in general are the first to catch my attention in a group setting. The attention goes instantly to who can influence, and who needs to be dealt with, and in what way. A lot of the 8's I know are basically family, but only after the first come to Jesus occasion and cards are shown. Same with 7w6 and 3w4, except more superficial bonds and with a quicker, test-free process. Don't do well with my own type unless they are grounded and honest, and most are not. Don't do particularly well with 3w2 either - never feel like I trust them.

Romantically, I have a thing for ENFP 4's and 2w1. Both tend to let you put a fingerprint on them and provide, which is something that's important to me in a relationship. 2w1 and their hidden acts of kindness are one of the few things that make me really break down. They know the tender spot nobody else does. ENFP 4's IDK what the deal is, but we usually just click - intensely, and automatically.


Most attractive for friends: 6w7, 8's, 1's, 7w6, some 9's (loyal, grounded, earthy people)
Most attractive for mates: 2w1, 4's