Only those who choose to play games with hearts, minds and emotions are the hardest to read.
For then I have to take my time to extrapolate between true and false perceptions. It infuriates me to no end and is the easiest way to make me lose respect for you.
The way I see it is, if you are so insecure in your emotions and thoughts that you choose to instead of being honest about it, surround it in veils of deceit, comfortable lies and puzzles that have many possible answers in the context of there employment but you seek only a very specific response based on your own specific conditions being met that is almost impossible to be mathematically achievable in many contexts then how do you expect to be known or understood?
I can completely understand why this is done though. We as humans hate being hurt, dislike being vulnerable and fear our own emotional demise due to it being exposed in an honest manner. But truthfully the only way we can develop and grow and explore possibilities is if we take those risks even in a marginal way so as to keep the pain felt by ourselves at a minimum. But failure to take these risks at all has the possibility of us never finding what it is we are searching for.