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Your ideal partner is an Enneagram One, the Perfectionist!
Your ideal match is the industrious and orderly Enneagram Type One, also known as “the Perfectionist.” Reliable and conscientious, Perfectionists are defined by their desire to be good and honorable and avoid being imperfect.

What you love about Enneagram oness
  • Trustworthy. Ones strive to be good in all they do, and integrity is of utmost importance to them. You can count on your One to always be honest and reliable.
  • Motivational. Nobody can inspire change quite like a Perfectionist. Ones constantly see how things could be improved and can inspire those around them to be better.
  • Organized. You can always count on your One partner to be ten steps ahead when it comes to plans and processes.
  • Thoughtful. Ones love deeply and will do everything they can for their loved ones. They pay attention to every detail to ensure that holidays, trips and everyday activities are memorable and fun.
  • Observant. Perfectionists pay attention to the little things that make life better for their partners. You’ll likely find that your One partner improves your life in ways you didn’t even realize needed to improve.
Do’s and don’ts for relationship bliss
Perfectionists struggle with their inner critic, constantly trying to convince them that they aren’t good enough. To cope, Ones look for faults in others, including their partners. Since they tend to repress their anger, poor communication can lead to frustration. Here are some things to keep in mind in your relationships with Enneagram Ones:

DO…
  • Remind them that they are loved. Because they are so self-critical, Ones need to be frequently reminded that they are valued and good enough as they are.
  • Be kind with criticism. Perfectionists are especially sensitive to criticism, so make sure to point out their mistakes constructively and gently.
  • Practice what you preach. Integrity is a core value of an Enneagram One and something they expect in return from their partners.
DON’T…
  • Ignore their advice. For a One, criticism is caring. If they share advice, it doesn’t mean they don’t love and appreciate you the way you are — they are simply wired always to see the potential for improvement.
  • Take their anger personally. When a One is angry, they’re usually angry at themselves. Be patient with your One in moments of frustration and help them focus on the bigger picture.

Sounds about right, I do tend to daydream about people like this.
 
Discussion starter · #34 ·
Clare_Bare said:
So basically, 4's and 5's are the universal partner for every other type?
Kinda makes sense in some ways?
Although it is perhaps due to similar types completing the quiz so far = all 'Intuitives' I suspect?

And yes, my ideal partner is a type 4 lol .....
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Yeah since I been seeing the results I have been feeling a lot less special, really hurts the ego you know.

Hmm... you too huh... this quiz must be broken or something.....
 
Discussion starter · #37 ·
WickerDeer said:
I got

My ideal E Type is a Four


YOUR MATCH IS TYPE 4
Your ideal match is the quirky and authentic Enneagram Type Four, also known as “the Individualist.” Creative and unique, Individualists are defined by their desire to express their individuality and stay true to who they are.

Your ideal partner is an Enneagram Four, the Individualist!
Your ideal match is the quirky and authentic Enneagram Type Four, also known as “the Individualist.” Creative and unique, Individualists are defined by their desire to express their individuality and stay true to who they are.
What you love about Enneagram Fours
  • Depth. Fours have a rich inner world of emotions. They often express these emotions through art, music, stories and symbols. This trait makes them intriguing and different from most people.
  • Honesty. Fours believe in always being authentic in their relationships — and they expect trust and honesty in return.
  • Originality. Individualists live by the beat of their own drums. They often explore non-conventional lifestyles and aren’t prone to blindly following the status quo.
  • Accepting. As Fours desire to be truly known and appreciated for who they are, they also create space for their loved ones to be their true selves. They tend to be open-minded to different ideas and perspectives.
  • Mysterious. A relationship with a Four is anything but boring and predictable. There will always be more layers to uncover for someone who’s up for the challenge.
Do’s and don’ts for relationship bliss
As part of their need for authenticity, Fours frequently express intense emotions and do best in relationships with people who are compassionate and patient when they express their feelings. Individualists often feel like they are “too much” and fear driving away the people they love. Here are some things to keep in mind in your relationships with Enneagram Fours:
DO…
  • Embrace their intensity. Fours know they are different from most people. This is not something that needs to be corrected or fixed, but rather admired and appreciated.
  • Be reliable. Fours need stability and trust in their relationships. They fear pushing people away and need partners who they can depend on.
  • Acknowledge their feelings. Fours often need to be reminded that their feelings are valid and that they are loveable and valuable as they are.
DON’T…
  • Tell them to “just cheer up.” Moodiness and melancholy are part of a Four’s personality. They are comfortable with these feelings — and it doesn’t necessarily mean they’re sad.
  • Accuse them of being overdramatic. Be honest about how their mood changes impact you, but don’t undervalue the Four’s emotional experiences.
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Again.... huh wow
 
Discussion starter · #38 ·
beth x said:
I also got a 4.


Your ideal partner is an Enneagram Four, the Individualist!
Your ideal match is the quirky and authentic Enneagram Type Four, also known as “the Individualist.” Creative and unique, Individualists are defined by their desire to express their individuality and stay true to who they are.

What you love about Enneagram Fours
  • Depth. Fours have a rich inner world of emotions. They often express these emotions through art, music, stories and symbols. This trait makes them in..triguing and different from most people.
  • Honesty. Fours believe in always being authentic in their relationships — and they expect trust and honesty in return.
  • Originality. Individualists live by the beat of their own drums. They often explore non-conventional lifestyles and aren’t prone to blindly following the status quo.
  • Accepting. As Fours desire to be truly known and appreciated for who they are, they also create space for their loved ones to be their true selves. They tend to be open-minded to different ideas and perspectives.
  • Mysterious. A relationship with a Four is anything but boring and predictable. There will always be more layers to uncover for someone who’s up for the challenge.
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Man never wished I was fully a 4 until now, all the women here seem to have 4s and 5s as their ideal match.
 
Discussion starter · #40 ·
Akiblue said:
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Your ideal partner is an Enneagram One, the Perfectionist!
Your ideal match is the industrious and orderly Enneagram Type One, also known as “the Perfectionist.” Reliable and conscientious, Perfectionists are defined by their desire to be good and honorable and avoid being imperfect.

What you love about Enneagram oness
  • Trustworthy. Ones strive to be good in all they do, and integrity is of utmost importance to them. You can count on your One to always be honest and reliable.
  • Motivational. Nobody can inspire change quite like a Perfectionist. Ones constantly see how things could be improved and can inspire those around them to be better.
  • Organized. You can always count on your One partner to be ten steps ahead when it comes to plans and processes.
  • Thoughtful. Ones love deeply and will do everything they can for their loved ones. They pay attention to every detail to ensure that holidays, trips and everyday activities are memorable and fun.
  • Observant. Perfectionists pay attention to the little things that make life better for their partners. You’ll likely find that your One partner improves your life in ways you didn’t even realize needed to improve.
Do’s and don’ts for relationship bliss
Perfectionists struggle with their inner critic, constantly trying to convince them that they aren’t good enough. To cope, Ones look for faults in others, including their partners. Since they tend to repress their anger, poor communication can lead to frustration. Here are some things to keep in mind in your relationships with Enneagram Ones:

DO…
  • Remind them that they are loved. Because they are so self-critical, Ones need to be frequently reminded that they are valued and good enough as they are.
  • Be kind with criticism. Perfectionists are especially sensitive to criticism, so make sure to point out their mistakes constructively and gently.
  • Practice what you preach. Integrity is a core value of an Enneagram One and something they expect in return from their partners.
DON’T…
  • Ignore their advice. For a One, criticism is caring. If they share advice, it doesn’t mean they don’t love and appreciate you the way you are — they are simply wired always to see the potential for improvement.
  • Take their anger personally. When a One is angry, they’re usually angry at themselves. Be patient with your One in moments of frustration and help them focus on the bigger picture.

Sounds about right, I do tend to daydream about people like this.
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Ah yes my enneagram sworn enemies, me and 1s almost NEVER get along crazy this is the first one I seen so far.
 
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