This is something I've always had a hard time with. Now that I've been getting into CF more, I've come to suspect that I'm more like Fe, but not everybody I know (albiet, many are people I've had limited interaction with on the internet) agrees with this.
I've come to realize that outwardly, my opinions (or at least any opinions which would affect people in a personal way)/"morals"/actions change with the social tides to go along with whomever I am around. I don't feel like I'm not being true to myself when I do this because I don't personally have set-in-stone opinions (read: I don't have a set idea of who *I* am) and find it easy to see things from any perspective. However, it does frustrate me later on when I'm alone and I think about how I behave around others because I resent how easily "persuaded" I am. I feel gullible. I resent how second-nature it seems for others to display their opinions even if controversial and how they sort of seem to expect people to agree. Or maybe I do the same in different ways and am unable to see it and am also overly sensitive when others do it. I don't know. Anyhow, this whole phenomenon is something that I've only become aware of rather recently.
I'm not sure if I even have morals. If I did, I don't know where to find them. People tell me I am kind, friendly, and charming nonetheless. I guess I just always do what I know is "right" at the moment. I act "kindly" towards others because it makes them respond to me in ways that make me feel good.
Can anyone offer any insight?
I've come to realize that outwardly, my opinions (or at least any opinions which would affect people in a personal way)/"morals"/actions change with the social tides to go along with whomever I am around. I don't feel like I'm not being true to myself when I do this because I don't personally have set-in-stone opinions (read: I don't have a set idea of who *I* am) and find it easy to see things from any perspective. However, it does frustrate me later on when I'm alone and I think about how I behave around others because I resent how easily "persuaded" I am. I feel gullible. I resent how second-nature it seems for others to display their opinions even if controversial and how they sort of seem to expect people to agree. Or maybe I do the same in different ways and am unable to see it and am also overly sensitive when others do it. I don't know. Anyhow, this whole phenomenon is something that I've only become aware of rather recently.
I'm not sure if I even have morals. If I did, I don't know where to find them. People tell me I am kind, friendly, and charming nonetheless. I guess I just always do what I know is "right" at the moment. I act "kindly" towards others because it makes them respond to me in ways that make me feel good.
Can anyone offer any insight?