I had high hopes for an INTP-INFJ relationship possibility, however now I'm deciding against it. I'm interested in knowing your thoughts.
Pros: Countless, from my point of view at least, and some from the point of view of the INFJ.
Cons (from the INTP's point of view):
- INFJs seem to be interested in INTPs, but they also easily get distracted and forget they were interested. This seems to be because INFJs are easily swayed by everyone. This is another reason why INTPs like them - they listen to us. But in the end INFJs only listen to INTPs because they listen to everyone who sounds convincing and this means anyone can sway them whichever way. Which means that there is no security for the INTP. None at all. And there never will be. Because it's not our job to keep wasting our time trying to convince you to stay with us.
Cons (from the INFJ POV):
Cons (from the INFJ POV regarding type XXXX):
I wonder how an INFJ feels when they get doorslammed?
Pros: Countless, from my point of view at least, and some from the point of view of the INFJ.
Cons (from the INTP's point of view):
- INFJs seem to be interested in INTPs, but they also easily get distracted and forget they were interested. This seems to be because INFJs are easily swayed by everyone. This is another reason why INTPs like them - they listen to us. But in the end INFJs only listen to INTPs because they listen to everyone who sounds convincing and this means anyone can sway them whichever way. Which means that there is no security for the INTP. None at all. And there never will be. Because it's not our job to keep wasting our time trying to convince you to stay with us.
Cons (from the INFJ POV):
- (Fill in the blanks, I don't really care).
- INTPs are great, but they don't have what this other girl has. Or what that one has. Or what the other one has.
Cons (from the INFJ POV regarding type XXXX):
- (Fill in the blanks, I don't really care).
- XXXXs are great, but they don't have what this other girl has. Or what that one has. Or what the other one has.
I wonder how an INFJ feels when they get doorslammed?