[Curiously]

So far, I've been the recipient of a lot of INTJ love. The heavens help me if I screw up to the point an INTJ doorslams me (I love them too much!). In any case, the INTJs I know are very patient; I know firsthand from them that once a person is in their inner circle, the INTJs in my life will give the person benefit of doubt and cut him/her slack. But there's a point at which their threshold will no longer tolerate a person's antics. After a person crosses that invisible but very real line, that doorslam is executed and they will not look back or regret their decision one bit. I think the main thing is to respect them and be straight-forward with them. Also, any hint of manipulation or an inability to be self-reliant is a major turn-off for the INTJs I know...quite frankly, they're a major turn-off to me, too, and I'm a true-blue INFJ. I have to say though, having an INTJ's loyalty is like gold.