Backstory: I've taken the sociotype.com test twice, and gotten EII-2Ne and EII-3Ne respectively.
However, I've been doing my own research on socionics (being that I'm a total noob
) and that has muddled things quite a bit. It seems like the Fi subtype of EII is more intuitive in the Jungian sense-- internally focused and introspective, unlike the more sociable Ne subtype. I would think that I'm more like the former. Also, isn't it uncommon for INFJs to be INFjs anyways?
I'm so inexperienced with the subject, and I would really appreciate your help c:
Personal concepts
1. What is beauty? What is love?
Interests
5. What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
Evaluation & Behaviour
11. What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
People & Interactions
15. What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?
Thanks in advance! c:
However, I've been doing my own research on socionics (being that I'm a total noob
I'm so inexperienced with the subject, and I would really appreciate your help c:
Personal concepts
1. What is beauty? What is love?
Beauty is what you see when you have a sudden appreciation of something about the world, or people, or words, or anything else, like you're viewing it for the very first time. Love is the feeling you get when you find something beautiful, and when you love something/someone you get that feeling over and over again.
2. What are your most important values?Intellectual curiosity, respect for authority, maturity, tolerance/respect for others
3. Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?I'm Jewish, and my beliefs lean more towards the chassidic, orthodox view, though the traditions that I practice aren't nearly that strict. I've just kinda conformed to the religion I was raised on, though I do identify with that denomination's more personal, one-on-one relationship with G-d, as opposed to a religion that has more of a hierarchy. I've actually been a bit conflicted about my religious beliefs lately, not that I'm thinking of giving up spirituality anytime soon; it's just that I'm also interested in science and have been trying to strengthen my critical thinking skills, and finding a way that my religious beliefs and my belief in rationality can coexist has been on my mind a lot.
4. Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?War should be avoided when it is avoidable. Granted, there are times when it is very much necessary. I very much admire those who choose to go into military service, because I wouldn't go anywhere near it no matter what. Power is having control over people or over a situation, and is basically a drug in its level of addictiveness and harmfulness to those who overuse it. Unfortunately, it's far more legal.
Interests
5. What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
Almost anything, really. Personality, sports, religion, college/future, school, people, etc. I'm interested in behavioral/cognitive neuroscience mainly, but I also pursue personality psych, astrology, and writing as hobbies. I love neuroscience because the idea that a minuscule change in the chemistry of a person's brain can have a massive impact on their personality and behavior is really fascinating to me.
6. Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body? Not particularly, though I wouldn't be averse to it. I'm definitely self-conscious of my body, and I feel awkward a lot when my body language seems sub-par.
7. What do you think of daily chores?I put them off a lot. It's kind of a bad habit; luckily I don't have many chores to do! But it's definitely satisfying once I get around to them.
8. Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.I read Incognito by David Eagleman (neuroscience book c
over the summer and loved it. I don't really have time to read books, and I'm more of a TV person than a movie person. I like a lot of action movies, Marvel stuff and the like. But again, I prefer TV; movies never stick with me.
9. What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?I cry a lot when I'm frustrated and/or indignant. I don't cry when I'm happy, but otherwise I'd say I cry quite a bit. I smile when things go to plan, when I beat a standard I've set for myself, when I feel included and enjoying a moment with others.
10. Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?This feeling usually comes in some sort of social situation-- whenever I'm with a group of friends and we're laughing or having a great conversation and I don't feel left out is when I most feel like I belong.
Evaluation & Behaviour
11. What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
Other people have said that I set unrealistic standards for myself, that I have a bit of a temper and that I'm too rigid and critical of others. I agree with all of that and also would add that I'm too anxious/paranoid and too concerned about what other people think.
12. What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?Other people have said that I'm a very hard worker, that I'm intelligent and easy to get along with. To go along with that, I'd also add that I'm self-disciplined, organized, introspective, focused, responsible, and, at times, funny.
13. In what areas of your life would you like help?I'm not one to usually ask for help when I need it c; But I suppose I need help with overcoming this anxiety I have surrounding romance/relationships, and simply growing up and living in the real world.
14. Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.Occasionally, but it doesn't last long. It's generally caused by frustration or stress over something just getting to me, and I'll cry it out, talk it out, think it out, and get over it.
People & Interactions
15. What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?
I like people who are intelligent, tolerant, mature, friendly, funny... I dislike people who are bigoted, unintelligent, immature, rude, stubborn (basically the opposite of the qualities I like). If you're looking for socionics types I get along with, I wouldn't know, but in terms of Myers-Briggs types I get along with pretty much everyone except for some xSTJs and some xSxPs.
16. How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?I'm interested in romance ideally, but I'm afraid of relationships and squeamish around any of their physical aspects, such as going out, kissing, etc etc. Qualities I like in a partner are intelligence, a sense of humor, confidence, open-mindedness, and being down to earth.
17. If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?I would be worried that my child would not be self-controlled enough and try alcohol, drugs, etc. I'd also be worried that my strictness towards that restraint would only drive my child to do it more. I also get irritated at people easily and I'm afraid I could lash out at my kid.
18. A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?Internally, I'd be brewing up a response and on some level feel offended or wronged. Outwardly, I likely wouldn't say much or only express my thoughts diplomatically. However, if the issue was very personal to me, I'd debate it.
19. Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.I'll be the first to admit that I have something of a superiority complex, and I catch myself looking down on the rest of society at times. However, I do believe in basic human goodness. I think intolerance is a massive issue, and society needs to further its education, particularly in isolated areas, and eliminate the fear of minorities that many seem to have.
20. How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?I generally make friends with people of around the same intelligence level as me and people who, like myself, are friendly social floaters and don't belong to a particular clique. I'm more reserved around most of my friends, though around friends I've known the longest I can be most unrestrained, and I rarely get into fights with them.
21. How do you behave around strangers?I'm usually very quiet around people I don't know, and can often fall back into my usual habit of keeping to myself.
Thanks in advance! c: