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Which type is typically the horniest?

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#1 ·
Or needs sexual attention. Im throwing in a vote for esfps. So which type do you think?
 
#2 ·
Esfp as well


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The ones I've known do tend to talk about sex a lot. idk. My dad, I'm close to 100% sure was ESFP probably 7w8 maybe, just taking a stab, and I was a total man-ho. I was recently just realizing, I probably went to school with some of my half siblings, and never realized it, because my dad slept with just about every women in New Orleans.

The one I dated, in contrast, strikes me as demisexual. He talks likes he's really sexual, but if he's not really feeling it with the person, it's hard for him to get or stay aroused. And then there were others that I've befriended that sounded more like they preferred the human contact aspect of relationships, not that they didn't like the sex, but pretty much every ESFP I've ever met, including my ex, love to cuddle. If anything, I'd classify it as the cuddling type, lol.
 
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I don't think any type is the "horniest."
 
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"Typically horniest" is probably ESFP yes but I think the actual horniest is ISFP.

On the other hand ISTP is the best at creating horniness in others, which is a slight distinction. And the weird thing is, they don't even do anything, they just stand there. If any other type tries that, they're not sexy. Why?!
 
#19 ·
You guys are over looking an underdog here - the INTJ.

Inferior Se: We love love love sensory pleasure. Holy sweet fuck, when we get it in for the first time and that unconscious inferior Se lights up like christmas lights on the day after thanksgiving? We're hooked for life. Ain't no better high.

What do we do when we get stressed (read: over use Ni)? We retreat into a shell of Se. Which means we just want to spend the weekend fucking and laying around in bed after a long work week doing things like talking to people and pretending to understand their feelings.

Oh, who am I kidding. Inferior Se probably just means an internet porn addiction for most of us. ;-)

Tertiary Fi: We just want to be mothered. Love us, nurture us, make us feel safe. Do you like to cuddle after sex? INTJ is your man. Do you like to snuggle all night long while we sleep? Same choice.

Don't want to talk about feelings, and want to have sexual relationships with someone who neither much cares to talk about yours, nor has much awareness of his own (but in a stable, easy going way, not a ragey "expressing the shadow" way)? Looking for a dude who's rational, logical mind will over rule his silly feelings if he starts to decide he likes you after a hook up? Someone to be your fuck buddy that you can trust to keep his mouth shut AND not fall in love with you? INTJ.

Primary Ni, Aux Te: Two words -problem solving. Do you have trouble achieving orgasm? INTJ is the guy who really wants to figure out how to get you to cum. Two more words - pragmatic optimist. We don't care what it takes, and we're not threated by toys or anything else you want us to use. If it works, we're down for it. And, we're just sort of certain that if we KEEP TRYING then eventually we'll figure it out and you will be curling your toes in no time.

So here's the thing. You're going to have to get past the awkward conversation and the borderline autistic behaviors. But seriously, you didn't come here to talk, you came here to do other things with your mouth. The INTJ is your best option for getting down.