The ones I've known do tend to talk about sex a lot. idk. My dad, I'm close to 100% sure was ESFP probably 7w8 maybe, just taking a stab, and I was a total man-ho. I was recently just realizing, I probably went to school with some of my half siblings, and never realized it, because my dad slept with just about every women in New Orleans.
The one I dated, in contrast, strikes me as demisexual. He talks likes he's really sexual, but if he's not really feeling it with the person, it's hard for him to get or stay aroused. And then there were others that I've befriended that sounded more like they preferred the human contact aspect of relationships, not that they didn't like the sex, but pretty much every ESFP I've ever met, including my ex, love to cuddle. If anything, I'd classify it as the cuddling type, lol.