I've been accused of:
- looking "too unhappy" or "too serious" or "too evil". These accusations didn't really come often from my peers in my home country, but when I had to move to UK for several years to study there, my classmates just killed me with the "Is something wrong? You have it written on your face." claims. It appears that this "unhappy" look appeared on my face every time I spaced out. However, when I was genuinely displeased by someone's behavior, I was accused of having the look of someone who's planning a murder. Needless to say, that I learned to weaponize this look, and if I genuinely need to appear scary towards someone who's potentially a threat to me, I channel my inner aggression through my eyes, and it splits mountains.
- whenever I'm genuinely happy enough to actually smile, my smile is always mistaken by others for being smug or cunning, as if I just finished planning a grand conspiracy. (although I'm genuinely just expressing happiness)
- I've also been accused of being too robotic or soldier-like when I move around and walk, this is probably because I always consciously control my movements and apply perfectionism to them - good posture, not moving my head around much (instead relying on eye-movement more), very reserved arm movements (no flailing about), usually fast-paced and accurate steps.
- When I'm trying to remember something I tend to look upwards, and when trying to calculate information - look downwards.
- Almost always avoiding eye contact during conversations, as looking into someone's eyes makes me lose my train of thought. And if I'm formulating complex thoughts into sentences, I usually tend to look into the distance completely avoiding my conversation partner's face and body.