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For example, something like: "I think ESTPs are pretty chill and easy to get along with, based on the ones i know" or "From what i've seen, INFPs are kind of hard to get to know, but are awesome once you do get to know them."

Try not to be negative, but if the truth is negative, please include evidence in your experience on why you think that way about people of that/those specific type(s).

Oh, and one last thing - feel free to rant! (As long as it doesn't offend anybody.)
 
ExFP's and I get along really well. I usually feel very comfortable with them, no inhibition or nervousness or anything.

NTJ's are quite inteste IMO, NTP's are less intense.

STP's I literally always forget about.
 
ESFJs every ESFJ I have known closely has probably been the few in my life I can think of who will give the most. (I try and give back like to society) But the ESFJs I know seriously set that bar high. Also very kind and one of the few types I have known closely who will actually offer to for sure pay their own tab but often like to treat others when dining (I dont expect that, saying that many other types will almost hide when a bill comes, ESFJs that I know will ask for a check or even demand it often-I personally like this just because I happen to think its good to try and offer myself when I can so I appreciate when someone else wants to treat me as I feel like they are one of the few types I can think of who seriously make me feel very humble in that regard). Negative when they are unhealthy or upset can use silly things to avoid hard truths. Just can be in denial about acknowledging flaws in 'their own' (their people). Will excuse extremely poor behavior or conduct in others and deflect if they feel they are protecting someone but can be enablers. (I think that was a constructive negative not a silly mean stereotype).

ISFJs The ISFJs I know are extremely perceptive of everyone else in a room. Often too critical at times. But extremely perceptive. The 3 I know well I am thinking of like their ESFJ siblings, are generous and thoughtful. All three of them take alot of abuse from either relationships or loved ones. Like extreme abuse. I guess the ISFJs I know I think are nice so I dont understand why they take so much shit. I dont get how my one friend can not snap when her man needles in her ear and degrades her (she still pleasantly smiles) and then makes zanax jokes (me thinks, oy eh ok I love ya but seriously you want to sedate yourself and smile rather then address this).

Meh I will add more in a bit got those 2 for now
 
I feel kind of like the odd man out here because I know practically nothing about other personalities. I understand IFSP and INFP because I am pretty split down the middle with comes to feeling and sensing. The only other personality types I understand for certain are INTP and INTJ, because they are some of the closest people to me. Every other type just doesn't make sense to me. Reading about different types doesn't really change anything. It is like there is a lack of connection. Does anyone else feel this way?

Anyway, onto opinions:

INFP: Creative and thoughtful, very dreamy/in their own head
ISFP: Also creative and thoughtful, but less complicated and turbulent, appreciates aesthetic
INTP: Smart and witty, fun to be around but socially oblivious
INTJ: Intelligent and tactiful, more reserved but highly regarded, has a way with words
 
STJs (mother and sister) takes a while and some work on both people's parts to get along with each other. I have no ill will towards the type, I'm sure I absolutely drive them batty. Kind of like Rabbit and... any other character in Winnie the Pooh.

NFPs: don't know many, except those online and my dad. Dad and I are cool; although now that I know what his type is I want know more about his passions in life and draw those out.

SFJs: kind of a weird relationship, noting their Si and my Ne. Appreciate (greatly) the one I work with, just there can be tension if I want to be creative and "wing it".

NTs: tend to be my friends, father in-law is INTJ. I appreciate their creativity, and their no-nonsense manner about things.
 
INFJ ~ Amazingly interesting people but I don't get why they just quit talking all of a sudden after you've known each other for a couple of months :c kinda sucks since convos with them are the bomb. Had it happen with three INFJs already u.u Also I wish they were a bit wilder, most INFJs I know are the "home by 9" type
INFP ~ I love their quirkiness and creativity and emotional depth but I do wish they were a bit less about the "feels".
ISFJ ~ Big heart but I wish they would break the rules a bit more, sometimes I feel like they would throw you under a bus in order to stay within the guidelines
ISTP ~ Misunderstood type, there is more to them than just fixing bike parts and computers. I love how helpful they can be and their sense of adventure
ISFP ~ Love their sense of adventure and their "stick it to the man" lifestyle. They also have a massive heart and are really fun to be around.I think a lot of girls I been with were ISFPs :eek:
ESFJ ~ Huge heart, out of the "popular kids" ESFJs are my favorite since I love how selfless they are, and would make perfect teachers
ENFJ ~ Love their depth and their quirkiness. Also it's amazing how tireless they are, I wish more leaders would be ENFJs
ENTP ~ Love their creativity quirkiness and energy but I wish they were more loyal and more accepting of social norms. Sometimes it feels like they completely disregard the feelings of everyone in the room
ESFP ~ Can be really shallow sometimes but underneath that shell they are mad chill
INTJ ~ Cute type, I feel like it's awesome getting them to open up, although unhealthy INTJs are kinda gone...
INTP ~ Can be awesome but too critical of everything, when I let my imagination run wild around them they just say all my ideas are stupid, especially the INTPs online, why even bother?
ISTJ ~ Can be nice but follow rules too much and are afraid of trying new things
ESTP ~ I knew one cool ESTP but aside from that they are too opportunistic and have no moral system and lie to get favors from you. Also they make fun of my quirkiness a lot which is no bueno, just because I'm artsy and emotional and hyper energetic doesn't mean you get to talk **** about me. I think most of my bullies from school were ESTPs
ESTJ ~ The way they want to control everything is really scary, and its even scarier how they THINK they control you when in reality you really don't care about what they say. I think they don't realize that work is 9 to 5, not a 24/7 thing
 
ESFJS: the one ESFJ I know (my mom) is very nice, but we can't seem to see eye to eye.
INFP: kind, witty people with good taste.
ISTP: the one ISTP I know is the kind of guy who would take a science exam he was exempt from just for funsies. aI don't get it, but hey, different strokes for different folks. He also has a dry sense of humor. Always the best kind of humor except for puns.
INTP: I have two INTP friends, both of which get kicks out of pissing people off, one more than the other. It is kind of funny, too.
ENTP: My ENTP friend is very funny and... charismaric, I guess? He's pretty cool.
INTJ: My INTJ friend has a very dry sense of humor, and he's logical, but he's not an ass about it. He's cool.
 
pls note that this is not very accurate, as im terrible at psychology and reading people, and none of these people has actually validated the types ive labeled them with, except for my brother who took a test but thats it, he didnt even read the descriptions
ISTJ: cutest thinking type, theyre rather unassuming and smiley and slightly awkward but in the most adorable way possible. a lil touchy compared to other thinking types, excel at math, is usually math major
ISFJ: the more social skills they have the more sly they are. comfortable with lying, good at saying whatever people want to hear. carry a hardworking image but doesnt excel at school. care more about social life than their grades. social chameleon, fashionable. doesnt have high ego, would embarrass themselves for others' sake. doesnt discriminate and abandon people
ESFJ: annoyingly conservative, but extremely hard working, surprisingly logical, has a mechanic side that is expressed from time to time. extremely chatty, chat non stop about other people to other people whenever, make friends with anyone near them, tend to talk to strangers. group-oriented, stick to the group even if it means they will have no fun, cuz people is like the most fun to them. overactive, loud, tend to exaggerate, once my esfj friend's bike fell a bit and she yelled like she was hit by a car and got everyone running towards. like to help people, especially in a mom way. an unhealthy one will even make you feel like youre useless so you will turn to them for help
ESTP: alpha motherfuckers. smart and read intellectual and deep shit. buffed sexy bods. excel at anything they want to. independent mind, very capable, be independent with ease. chill, or at least the ones i know, introverts can feel at ease talking to them, talkative but tend to comment here and there rather than have a full chat session. prone to antisocial disorder. athletic no doubt, like to improve their physical endurance. powerful presence but are not consciously bossy, being a leader is not an egotistic goal they set up for themselves, it just happens. a healthy one is caring and would sacrifice themselves for others. act like theyre emotional but not really. group-oriented and individualistic at the same time
ISTP: act dark and moody but dont really care what others think. naive girls would find them sexy for their mysterious but not awkward demeanor. usually good looking. sporty but lean more towards fixing computers and writing codes and stuff. like to know your motive, what triggers you, can lie and pretend to be emotional so you will be honest with them, or thats just the manipulative istp i know. dont talk very clear or loud, again dont really care. healthy ones are super nice
ISFP: tend to not talk a lot, tend to fix your hair, touch your jewelry, stare at your nails. hanging out with them is just a series of gentle actions and quiet but intimate communication. like calm atmosphere. cute laugh and very expressive face. like to try out new things, like every perceiver, but prefer you not judge them for being new to things and give them time to feel up the thing, if that makes sense. like to put earbuds on and walk around while listening to music and living the vibes. although theyre Fi they has a very Fe personality, friendly but can be judgemental if theyre insecure. like to read dark stuff, the more party-ish ones like the feel good gangsta music and style. like boys to consider them the hottest girl around
ESFP: fun and smooth. is potential at math but dont study much. unhealthy ones tend to be aggressive and like making people feel uncomfortable. real, "be true to yourself" personality. are not pretentious. doesnt discriminate ppl. not manipulative
ENTP: no matter how cool they trying to look and act you can still tell theyre a nerd. not that talkative but are still extroverted enough. discriminate people
INTP: talk a lot when its one-on-one communication about random shit and they dont really care if youre listenting. it spells "i dont care what others think about me" all over them, but not as much as istps. annoying the crap out of you cuz they talk too much, but otherwise funny
INFP: very socially wise and crafty. tend to think others are just as sensitive as them so they treat others very carefully, thus very hard to be hated. have insecurities that they would tell you and let you help them if you seem non-judgemental enough. talk more than the isfps, sometimes even talk a lot when they gather enough extrovert chemicals. very funny when they feel comfortable. have outburst moments when they act like a full on enfp. not as physically awkward as most people believe, its just that they can be self-conscious and insecure in their physical abilities
ENFP: chill and outgoing personality. introverts feel absolutely at ease talking to them. independent mind, has their own moral compass, dont buy into the sexist, racist, misogynistic,... way of thinking of people around them. a more socially wise version of the infp, and usually more sporty. great at handling sensitive people. doesnt discriminate, like to be on top of the social ladder but hate it, try to treat the losers normally and with respect
ENTJ: chillest of the extrovert type. has an introvert quality about them, can even be mistaken as an introvert if they dont have such wide range of acquaintances. know by everyone at school cuz they attend and win a lot of contests. like to read self-help books. tend to be fashionable and "everything on fleek". handsome as hell. the kid the teachers think has the brightest future. get along with everyone but tend to secretly dislike you if youre better than them lol
INTJ: my brother! very studious, plan and go ahead and do everything that they think will promise them a bright future, and they usually correct with that and their priorities. has no problem just suddenly become super outgoing and sociable, if they determine that its necessary for their survival. others tend to think they have social skills because they talk to people easily. are fleek and good looking. cross their legs while theyre seating even at home. just naturally have a proper and presentable demeanor. eat slow, like to walk while thinking, or thats just my bro lol
ENFJ: smart and handle logic well. chill, easygoing but bossy at the same time. good at telling stories. fashionable but not that fleek. can just dress like shit and be messy if it means they will look friendly to the group of people they hang out with. doesnt have high ego, just do whatever make others comfortable. although because theyre dominant Fe they can go along with society's shitty way of thinking, theyre open-minded and absorb new ideology well
 
INFJ - He knows more about me than myself, such an amazing empathy.
INTP - He's got feelings but never expresses them which I'm grateful for because I have the same approach. He's so objective, fair and just. Always seeks the truth, never lies (or at least it seems to me) and I can 100% rely on what he says.
ISFJ - She's the most selfless person I've ever met.
ESFJ - Sometimes hard to talk to, a bit shallow and she often doesn't get my mindflow.. However, she always thinks on others, everything she does, she does with her heart and kindness. She doesn't have any ulterior motives.
ISTP - The man who can do everything. Fix everything, find everything, arrange everything, talk to everybody and get what he wants, despite his introversion.
ENTP - My funny sister. I always have a great time with her. She listens to me, understands me and she's interested in what other people say. In addition, she's full of amazing ideas and isn't afraid to realize them.
 
ESFP: They are just so fun to be around and also very understanding friends (three of my friends are ESFP).

ENTP: I have an ENTP friend who is always encouraging me to do stuff outside my comfort zone, helping me out with homework, and getting us into trouble. She's a great friend (no sarcasm!!!)

INFJ: My INFJ friend is a much more organised and responsible version of me.

INTJ: The smartest people in the whole world

ESFJ: Both my parents are ESFJ, I want to hug them so much one second then strangle them the next.
 
ESFJs every ESFJ I have known closely has probably been the few in my life I can think of who will give the most. (I try and give back like to society) But the ESFJs I know seriously set that bar high. Also very kind and one of the few types I have known closely who will actually offer to for sure pay their own tab but often like to treat others when dining (I dont expect that, saying that many other types will almost hide when a bill comes, ESFJs that I know will ask for a check or even demand it often-I personally like this just because I happen to think its good to try and offer myself when I can so I appreciate when someone else wants to treat me as I feel like they are one of the few types I can think of who seriously make me feel very humble in that regard). Negative when they are unhealthy or upset can use silly things to avoid hard truths. Just can be in denial about acknowledging flaws in 'their own' (their people). Will excuse extremely poor behavior or conduct in others and deflect if they feel they are protecting someone but can be enablers. (I think that was a constructive negative not a silly mean stereotype).
This is my exact view on ESFJs. Every single one I've known, no exceptions, has been an exceptional person (see what I did there) - always giving back as you describe, that is something they really stand for and really, truly, genuinely want. I wish I could be like that, in a way. I have an aspiration to be like that...like you, I try to give back to society...but it's nothing like what they do. They just do it. I talk about it. I hope for it. I wish for it. I donate money. They actually fucking do something. I do agree with the negatives though; that's the dark side of dominant Fe, and I've seen much of the same in less healthy ESFJs. Some of the unhealthy ones I've known (ENFJs too) have become completely dependent on outside admiration and approval, seemingly with no self-esteem of their own, but always reliant on the approval of their larger group. Which sounds like an extreme Fe perspective without Si/Ni counterbalance, or possibly even an FeNe/FeSe loop. But <3 ESFJs, seriously.
 
ISTJ - Opinionated, Workaholics, Loyal, Honest, Some flat out dislike me due to obvious differences, others respect my point of view.
ISFJ - Easy to get along with, Caring, Sentimental, Tie with ESFJ for the type with least in common with me, incredibly honest but also tactful
ESTJ - Efficient, Hard Worker, Very good at what they do, I generally do not get along with this type but gaining their respect is so rewarding.
ESFJ - Social Butterfly, Good Talker, I only really communicate with this type while engaging in small talk at school or work.
ISTP - Outsider, Rebellious, Quietly Intelligent, Really love these guys, I generally have a bit in common with them but it's hard to talk philosophical.
ISFP - Loving, Cool, Affectionate Beyond Belief (Especially the Males) One of the types I get along best with as they are artistic but have a down to earth edge, which I lack.
ESTP - Funny, Massive Trolls, Always looking for a good time, The type I want to be friends with, I enjoy dabbling in the Se lifestyle to an extent and I also believe ESTP's are very pure hearted
ESFP - Talkative, Childish, Non-Judgemental, Great friends, will be loving, upbeat, sensitive, fun and funny all at the same time
INTJ - Intellectual, Fascinating, Well Studied, Can be condescending to some but respect my intelligence in particular, In a crowd these types are the most likely I make friends with, I enjoy and respect their opinions and dually, they respect mine.
INFJ- Quirky, Mesmerising, Emotionally Withdrawn, I share superficial similarities (movies, music, clothing, etc.) the most with this type. I do find them hard to read at times.
ENTJ - Ambitious, Loud, Good Hearts, I don't really come into the same circles as this type all that often but from what I do know of them I admire their desires and ideals which heavily differ from mine.
ENFJ - Jesus-Like, Loving, High Achievers, In a social environment this type is usually the most universally loved, they tend to be a little goody-goody but have a lot of heart and a great sense of humour.
INTP - Philosophical, Truth Teller, Theoretical, I, like the INTJ's tend to make friends with this type the easiest as we can converse in a manner that is very fluid, I enjoy their intelligence which is applied in a laid-back, bohemian way.
INFP - Soft, Lots In Common, Contradictory, My sister type, the most relatable type next to ENFP. I create deep and lasting friendships with ease due to their comforting yet no bullshit attitude.
ENTP - Hilarious, Good balance between social and intellectual, Very little communicative issues with them, This type to me is by far the funniest as they merge confidence with offbeat behaviours.
ENFP - Soul Mates, They are the kind of people I just "get", Authentic, I get along with this type because we just understand each other so well. Know how to nurture relationships, the true ambivert.
 
I seem to be a fan of lists (or at least a list like format) so I'll make one. As I was supposed to judge by personal experience that is exactly what I will do - so keep in mind that these observations are not universal in any way - and my feelings/attitudes towards different behaviours don't apply to everyone of a certain type. Just these individuals. And if I say someone's a know-it-all I don't mean that I think I know better.

ENFJ: They're... Popular. Many people seem to like them, but they also tend to have people who strongly dislike them. Perhaps for their popularity, I don't know. On a more personal level I find them easy to be around - they're very good at being attentive and you seldom feel like you're just talking to air - they seem like they listen. They also aren't afraid to offer their perspective on things, perhaps sometimes a bit too much as um, well... When they've decided that something's supposed to be in a certain way, they can become a bit dictator-like. I suppose that could be a J-trait. They're also prone to sticking their noses into other people's personal businesses, like they have anything to do with what partner someone else chooses to be with, etc. I understand that they do that because they care though, so I can deal with it. But I sometimes think they'd be better off themselves if they didn't focus so much on others. And they're very flighty, jumping from one thing to the next - very much depending on what the people closest to them are like (and they seem to switch friends every now and then). Not the type I'd trust with my innermost secrets. I don't really get the Jesus-stamp ENFJs get on the internet - those I know aren't very saint-like. They're nice, but not like that...

ENFP: Ah, where do I begin... These people have personalities that range from the Mariana Trench to Pluto (or any other thing that's very far, far away). I don't mean to say that they're all totally different from each other - it's just that each one of them have very broad/deep/widespread personalities. They can be the most loving, loyal and accepting people around, but can become extremely cynical, angry, stubborn and right off unfriendly when in a bad mood. They're like heaven and hell in the same person. They're very smart, but sometimes act like they're dumber than a pet rock. Few people can be so spot on in their statements, while also ending up very far off at other times. But I guess that's what happens when you have to say something about absolutely everything - eventually you'll end up saying something fucked up :p Any way, I might seem bitter but I'm not - my fiance is an ENFP and I love him and all aspects of him - it's just that I'm having a hard time thinking of any other type as complicated. Then again, not all ENFPs seem to be like that, I've met quite a few more and they seem a bit more stable. Maybe I just happened to stumble upon the weirdest one in the bunch. It's nice though, I like the stimuli. I'm never bored, neither emotionally nor intellectually!

INTP: Brilliant sense of humour, refreshing perspective. Perhaps a bit more lazy than he should be (for his own sake), not exactly the most efficient guy around, but who cares. With that mind I think you kind of deserve to lay around and just think. After all, that's what he excels at. He should be running for world president though. It's a shame he wouldn't like all the work involved... I think he can get a bit grumpy and sarcastic and sometimes he gives me a feeling that if one doesn't hold up to his standards (mostly intellectual) you're not worthy. I don't think this is how he wants others to feel though as he really is very considerate - I just think it's something in the unconsciously-besserwissery-air he has.

INTJ: <3 Need I say more? I love their intensity with which they take things on in life, it's truly admirable. People sometimes seem to think they're un-feeling but they aren't - when they're interested in something they give their all to it - be it a search for knowledge or the search for a good relationship. I love their drive to always make the best out of things, and I love how they can see many sides to things while still remaining efficient. The only thing I sometimes find troubling would be that they can sometimes become control freaks, as they don't seem to trust anyone else as much as they trust themselves. Can't blame them though, they're mostly very competent people. As long as they don't fiddle in things where they don't belong, such as other people's relationships or life choices (having an INTJ father I know that he'd love to do my relationship with my fiance and friends for me to make sure I don't ever get hurt - but life really doesn't work like that). Also their Fi can sometimes seem irrational, so they might get moody and it might not be so easy to tell why.

INFP: Honest, sometimes to the point of almost being a bit blunt. They care a lot about things, which I like, at least as long as they're happy. If the world was full of happy INFPs, it'd be great (but if they were unhappy, it'd be a disaster). They have a tendency to be a bit emo sometimes, but they often have a point. For example, one of the INFPs I know is currently very emo about how animals are being treated in the meat industry. She does have a point, but I don't see how sulking about it in her own room with closed doors is going to make any difference. I'm glad she cares though. The world needs more caring.

ISFP: Um... I'm having a hard time with these. I know a few, and they're very loving and kind people, but they seem a bit limited in their understanding of others. It's like if they can't relate to a certain way of thinking/feeling, they're completely incapable of it. They have a bit of an "if it's meaningless to me it's automatically universally meaningless" attitude. They're very genuine though. And one of them is great at coming with little words of wisdom every now and then. While not always accurate, they're sometimes very spot on and unique, and they often offer a refreshing perspective.

ESFP: Very straightforward and funny, they have a very laid-back attitude. But they're also very critical, and they aren't afraid to speak up when they feel something isn't right, sometimes at the expense of social harmony. Guess this can be both good and bad, the worst thing would probably be for themselves, if they put themselves in an unfavorable position by being too edgy. A bit similar to the ISFP regarding narrow-mindedness.

ESFJ: Very varied type, I know many of them but they're not always very much alike each other. But, they do have some things in common. They all seem to be careful to try to fit into the social norms, which can sometimes get annoying because they don't get that "just do as others do" isn't always a fulfilling solution for other types. They also often tell other people how they should be, and I suppose they think they know what's best for everyone because they're very good at doing what's normally "the best" thing to do themselves (they've all had high grades in primary school, they're well liked at work and have just enough acquaintances/friends, blah blah). The best thing about them would be their good will - after all they all care about others.

ESTJ: Down to earth, straight forward, no fuss. Also very honest, not afraid of conflict. It's not that she's an aggressive type actually, she just says things like they are and she isn't afraid of getting an answer she won't like. One of the most trustworthy people I know. The only annoying thing would be when she thinks something is a competition, while nobody else knows. When eating dinner or buying presents for example, I might not have a clue that we're competing but apparently we were because she might shout "HAHA I WON!" after having done pretty much anything. Oh well. It is kind of funny, really. As long as she's not pissed, luckily she hasn't been pissed with me much but she turns into a deaf, noisy bulldozer when she does get pissed. It's not very charming, and sometimes she can have a bit of an "I'm always right" attitude.

ISTP: Seriously the funniest guy I know. Extremely laid back, but it's not that he's lazy, he's extremely active. He's just not much for prestige - he does things he enjoys and fuck the rest. If you don't like it, fine by him. If you like it, feel free to tag along. A constant adventure, he says the most random stuff and the best thing is that he's not even trying. Also he's extremely honest, he doesn't say anything if he doesn't mean it. He's the kind of person who could tell you "I can't tell you anything because I'm not sure it would be true" and you'll just have to accept that. While completely unaware of social graces he still gets away with pretty much everything, because it's easy to see that there's not ever any harm intended. He cares about people on a deep level, but not so much on a superficial level. He doesn't ask "how are you?" if he doesn't care, but when he does ask, he really does care.

ENTJ: I'm not sure whether he's an ENTJ or ESTJ really, but he claims he's an ENTJ so I guess I'll just accept that for now. He has this kind of attitude where he seems to think that he's the one to decide what's meaningful and what isn't, for everyone. If he thinks religion is bullshit, it's bullshit for everyone. If he thinks Apple is better than Windows, it's a fact. I actually have a pretty hard time being around this person, because if there are two people talking about something else, and he's not actually participating in the conversation, he could very well jump in just to tell them that he thinks what they're talking about is pointless. I have no problems with this kind of behaviour in an argument, but when you jump into someone elses dialogue it seems a bit.. Rude. Like if he overhears two kids talking about what Santa might give them for Christmas, does he really have to jump in and tell them Santa isn't real? Feel free to think what you want, dude, but quit spoiling things for others. If you think someone's talking about something pointless (and they're not even talking to you in the first place), go talk to someone who wants to talk about something you approve of. Or talk to yourself. I suppose a good trait could be that he's smart, he's probably useful in some way as he's very hard working and actually produces stuff for others to use.

ENTP: I only know one but he seems really cool. He's very open minded and seems to accept others, while also wanting to be accepted himself (with all his quirks). A go-with-the-flow and relaxed kind of guy, if things go wrong it's no big deal - he's very optimistic so he believes most things can be fixed. I can understand one might get annoyed as an employer as he has a tendency to be late very often, and doesn't clean up after himself, but he manages to create some very interesting stuff and he does what he does wholeheartedly.

ISFJ: Very kind, but a bit difficult to approach. Friendly and cheerful, but it seems like I have to keep the conversations running because they just won't take command. I don't know why this happens, I really like the ISFJs I know but it's like we can't talk much because we just agree and that's that. And if we don't agree, we just don't agree and that's that. It's not very dynamic :/ They're very easy to talk to about everyday things though, and we seem to click value-wise very often.
 
Based on people I know...

ISFJs - Cool
ESFJs - Awesome
INTPs - I am the only one. And clearly, I am the best.
ENTPs - Rude. TBH I don't get the ENTP boner online. I guess they could be like, charming rogues or something.
ESTPs - Fun.
ISTPs - The only who can win a debate with me.
ENFJs - My most easy-going friendships.
INFJs - A little weird.
ESFPs - Don't exist
ISFPs - Cute
ENTJs - Tryhards but I love them
INTJs - Nothing like the stereotypes
ISTJs - Get offended easily but I like them
ESTJs - Might exist
INFPs - Creative af
ENFPs - I know a shitton and they're all great
 
I will just do the types I know the best irl;

ESFJ - They love their aesthetics and want themselves and everyone else to be comfortable. This means they are bugged by the smallest things and can get irritated by things such as the room temperature and other things that I don't care about personally. I might walk into my house and think the place is fairly tidy, whereas they walk into the room and say its a mess. ESFJs who are a little on the "unhealthy" side can be two faced or enjoy gossip, but a normal/healthy person can be kind and sociable, and really good at getting everyone involved. They basically like parents.

ISFJ - They are pretty much the same as the ESFJs I know, except they appear to be drained after a long time of talking. Typically, they are selfless and would make ideal parents. They are also loyal and don't take things too seriously - they just like to laugh.

ISTJ - It's hard to know what they're thinking, and the ones I know don't seem to express a strong opinion on anything regarding personal values. They seem hard working and content with their routine, very chilled, level headed, don't stress out over anything ever. The ones that I know are very interested in photography and show a high awareness of their environment. They don't value aesthetics like the SFJs do, and instead they are more...systematic. Overall they logical but reserved. ...That also makes it hard to type them...some of them might actually be IxTP. Uhh moving on

ISFP - Sensitive people...talking to them is like walking on eggshells. Their demeanor tends to be aloof and quiet but opinionated. They are always looking for someone to look up to, and like engaging in nostalgic activities. They are hard working and are determined to succeed. They are also artistic and aware of how things fit in their surroundings. The ISFPs I know are...insecure, so this might be unfair regarding all ISFPs. They don't open up or share their struggles with other people. Prone to aggression, outbursts and paranoia. They are best suited to the phrase; There is no better friend, no worse enemy. But somehow they are still genuine, underneath it all.

(Dont get offended by any of these, as my opinion strongly relies on the individuals and my experience with them as well as the type. I think I am sure the types though).
 
I've got an ENTJ friend, and our Ne-Ti/Te-Ni headbutting is a joy forever. He says he doesn't like percievers, as we tend to waver between all the options too much for his tastes. At the same time, most of our mutual friends are perceivers. He goes on fun rants and has strong convictions, but is a bit too sure that he's right sometimes, particularly about his perception of the motives and abilities of other people.
 
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Hmm...lemme make a list too.

ESTJ ~ Haven't met many of them (or identified many), but they seem generally pretty impersonal when making decisions for projects or important stuff, which is good because this way, they have less bias. Stick to the "rules of society", but can be very imaginative too. Can also be tactless and unaware of others' emotions, but know their respect for authority. Honest, trustworthy.

ISTJ ~ Very responsible and also impersonal, but it's not like they can't be fun. Have a great sense of humour, but know when it's time to work. Have better grammar than spelling for some reason (lol this is just based on my mom and a few friends). Sympathetic, although they don't always show it. Can be brutally honest XD

ESFJ ~ Caring, popular (not me though), don't procrastinate that much. Are internally aware of the aforementioned "rules of society", but don't show it unless they're ticked off at someone who doesn't follow the rules for the good of others. Highly observant of people, know others better than they know themselves. Fun and conversational. Show genuine caring for others, but lack introspection.

ISFJ ~ Easygoing, caring about others, usually let things slide (Type 9-ish), smart but not aware that they're smart. Usually so easygoing that you're kinda shocked when they complain about something. Oh, and honest, REALLY honest. They try to balance honesty with tact. Can apologize a lot. Good at asking others questions to keep the conversation going, or to let them share their thoughts. Really private about their opinions and feelings, though.

ESTP ~ Fun, cool, popular, can be brutally honest. Can show off a little sometimes. Usually rather calm unless they hear about something surprising someone did, in which case they find it hard to believe anybody could be so stupid. Know their inside jokes, have great social connections, and aren't as bad with emotions as you'd think.

ISTP ~ Relish on inside jokes and fun experiences they've had with friends, especially experiences in which someone made an epic fail :p Responsible with their work and chores, but dislike them, finding a lot of things repetitive. Easygoing and humourous, kind of like ISFJ in terms of "letting it go". Good with technology, but can get a little confused when too many things are going wrong that they haven't seen before.

ESFP ~ Very expressive, fun, creative, and enthusiastic. Sometimes, they can complain quite a bit, but they complain about universally annoying things that we can all relate to. Like most ESxx types, they've got great social connections. Tend to worry about how they look. Love social media - they like to keep up with everything happening in the moment.

ISFP ~ Um, i haven't met one? But i'm a huge fan of Lionel Messi, who's (i think) ISFP, and all i can say is that they're REALLY hard to figure out because they're so private. You see much more Se than Fi in them because of that. Have great awareness of surroundings, focus on the present but at least have some ideas about the future. Verrrry strong values, trying to oppose their values is like trying to mine bedrock in Minecraft, survival mode.

ENTP ~ Like ESTPs, they're not that bad with emotional support. But they obviously prefer logical discussions more than emotional ones, they feel more in control when things revolve around theory and concepts. They don't always debate, but when they can, they're generally good at it and they enjoy it. Offer great discussion and interesting perspectives for everyone.

INTP ~ When you get to know them, they talk so much you wouldn't think they're introverted XD but they are, and sometimes you gotta give them space to rationalize/internalize stuff. Of course, they're great with logic and philosophy, and it interests them. They are also really honest about what they have to say, so you either choose to take offense, or to trust them because you know they're saying what they really believe, and they know that you need to know. They leave that choice up to you :)

ENTJ ~ Highly energetic, perfectionistic, and have interesting opinions which they always share without any doubt. Great self-confidence - they know not to become big-headed or anything. Kinda humble and proud at the same time - they know and accept what's true without taking offense, but are extremely confident in their values and opinions on things and people. They're honest for the sake of being honest, and hard-working for the sake of working 120%.

INTJ ~ Imaginative, honest, emotional, but try not to let emotions influence their decisions. May find it hard when society expects them to be more attached to reality; can easily mistype as ISTJ, or view themselves as ISTJ. Aren't too reserved for introverts, readily offer any opinion for the sake of being honest (like ENTJs, i guess?) and because they value frank honesty more than trying to put things "nicely" (like INTPs).

ENFJ ~ Kind, contributing, hard-working, caring, optimistic. Very idealistic and imaginative as well, prefer literacy to math. Compassionate, altruistic, and sincere. Oh, yes, they really value sincerity and clarity. Great social skills, tend to not take offense that easily or care what others think of them. Let people be themselves, but offer practical help when something is obviously off about someone's work.

INFJ ~ They're private about their values and beliefs, but pretty open about their opinions on how things should be in their social circles, how people should treat each other instead of what they're doing atm (which i agree with most of the time). Can have a negative view on the world and "lose hope in humanity", always try to contribute to a bigger picture. Sensitive to both self and others, great emotional intel, observational skills, and self-awareness.

ENFP ~ Energetic, friendly, and cheerful, always finding something to get excited about. Their enthusiasm is infectious, i swear. Great ideas/perspectives, except for the fact that they forget those way too often :p Strong values that they project into their group of friends, tend to be easily offended, but learn to relax and dismiss haters who are not worth listening to. Speaking of relaxing...they're often stressed about something, and then not, and then stressed again. A very turbulent type, i'd say.

INFP ~ Idealistic, optimistic, sensitive. Future-oriented, big picture-focused. Very fun and have their own personal "crazy moments", are vulnerable to others judging them. If you don't judge them, though, they prove to be extremely loyal and dedicated friends who give you everything in return. Introspective, can find it hard to decide on their type, so you might want to tell them that you're really sure they're INFP before they change their minds and say they just might be another type :p
 
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ESTJ: Nooooooooo. Nooooooooo. Noooooooo. Sorry!
ISTJ: I wouldn't have thought I'd like you, but you're actually way chill.
ISTP: You're so cute. Like, little baby badasses. That are cute!
ENTJ: See ESTJ. But possibly maybe okay, if I get used to you.
INTJ: Some, I love to bits. Some, I don't.
INTP: Like me, with an added velociraptor factor.
ENFJ/ENFP/INFJ: Hug me! I love you! Except you, INFJ. I'm jealous of you.
 
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